So much has happened since the last time I was actively participating on the board. In short and just to get attention: I dated a man that was too old for me (and too controlling), went to a new job (and then back), tried to help my ex through his divorce (and then almost got sucked in) and then got a promotion/raise...

The Older Man:
So, I tried dating a man who was 16 when I was born (I'm 28, so you do the math). He has 4 kids, son 15, son 12, daughter 9, daughter 6. He worked for himself installing security systems. He pays $1000 in child support every month and told me (after dating a month) that he wanted me to quit my job. He also wanted me to serve him his dinner before the kids, feed him when we went to eat (because it was romantic) and buy him shirts. That ended soon after.

The Divorcing Ex:
So the father of my children was caught three years ago selling a morphine patch for Christmas money (not for the girls). Guess how he was caught? He sold it to an under cover policeman. They never arrested him so he never knew he had been caught until they served him with a silent indictment almost a year later. By that point I had terminated his rights. Then he became a Christian and started coming to see the girls. We did really well. Did not fight at all. Then next thing I knew, he was married one weekend and gone to prison the next. So I got letters. I never wrote back until one sounded sooooo bad. His wife had cheated and he felt like such a bad father, and person in general. So I wrote him. Then came his divorce and I supported him. and since you never really stop loving someone, I began to feel like maybe we had a chance again. So, I went to visit and took the girls to see him a few times. As soon as he thought we were almost a definite, the green monster came out. He got jealous over me smiling at a man and his baby. He said that disrespected him. That I was flirting.

I smile at everyone. I don't discriminate. Old, young, cute, ugly, man, woman, dogs. If that is flirting, you have never seen anyone flirt like I can flirt! I even flirt with myself

So anyway. That brings me to where I am. Single. Happy. Making more money since I got a raise.

Just wanted to update you on the last year or two that I have been gone (but not forgotten right? )

How could we forget such a P I T A ? LOL.....I wish I could sum up the last two years so quickly and succinct.

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Originally posted by PITA:
.....The Older Man:
So, I tried dating a man who was 16 when I was born (I'm 28, so you do the math). ...

I all of sudden feel really OLD...thanks.

.....He also wanted me to serve him his dinner before the kids, feed him when we went to eat (because it was romantic).....
What's wrong with that??!! Sheesh...LOL



I smile at everyone. I don't discriminate. Old, young, cute, ugly, man, woman, dogs. If that is flirting, you have never seen anyone flirt like I can flirt! I even flirt with myself

I'll bet you do...you look like a big 'ol flirt!! And I should know ...just look at my Title under my screen name. :P

Well, obviously we're glad you're back ...safe and sound... now tell me more about this flirting with YOURSELF thing.... Hmmmm

Sorry about the "old" comment Paul. It would not have been so bad except that I starte dto notice his mild balding (not the biggest problem) but I remember looking at him on one of our dates and thinking, "I think he is wearing his son's pants!"

As far as feeding a man... if I want them to try what I am eating cause it is amazing, I might ask them to eat it and actually feed it to them. But he made me eat everything he ordered. Force fed me really. If I wanted what he ordered, I would have ordered it myself.

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now tell me more about this flirting with YOURSELF thing.... Hmmmm

A mirror Paul.... a mirror.