You have an ex that is an *** too? I think someone threw mine in my cart at the grocery store cause I swear I didnt go down that aisle and the legal system? HA HA. I know what ya mean. I am sorry if I couldnt tell you what you want to hear but it is hard to give advice sometimes when you dont know everything about the situation. I really hope you get everything you want out of this because you deserve it. Hang in there and if you ever want to talk you have chosen the right place to come...