So last night I call my bff to see what she's up to and she is balling. Like not able to hear what she is saying. So I calm her down enough for her to tell me what is going on and here's the story:

She came home, the ex came to get his stuff. She took a bath and stayed in the bath for over an hour in hopes that she wouldn't have to talk to him. He didn't leave. So finally she came out to see if he was maybe looking for something. Well I guess he started in on her as to why they were over and pleaded to let him move back in. She said no that she is done. Well apparently (and from what I've heard from him in the past) he went off on her. Screaming at her and just angry as ****. She yelled at him to get out and he said no, that he wouldn't leave until she talked to him about them. She kept repeating it's over, please get out. Well finally he got close to her and scared her. She ran downstairs to her bedroom and locked the door.

He was yelling at her pounding at the door telling her to let him in. She repeatedly was asking him to leave. So he stops yelling and she thinks he just decided to leave.
Nope, he comes in behind her through her sliding door in her bedroom! Which usually has a broom handle in it to keep it from being opened from the outside. HE MOVED IT LAST TIME HE WAS THERE!!! He proceeded to yell at her and tell her she's a bitch, blah blah blah

Anyway, she calls his mom and his mom even tells him that he's being a jerk and to leave.
So he finally leaves and tells her as he walks out the door "i'm coming back tomorrow and if
the doors are locked, i'll kick it in!"

He basically scared my friend so bad that she was unable to move off her couch last night.
She was terrified of moving, of even trying to get downstairs to get her clothes, in fear that
he came back and was hiding or something on her. I finally convinced her to call her ex-husband and ask him to come over. he did and my bff went to a friend's house for the night, which is again where she is staying tonight.

So, she also calls the cops to see if she can file a report against him and the only thing the dispatcher says is "it's not against the law to be a jerk!"

Now, tell me there is't something wrong with this picture. This guy had better hope he doesn't see me cause I'll give him some words and I wont care who is around to hear it. He is blatantly stalking my friend. He calls her at all hours, texts her and comes over whenever. She doesn't let him in of course and he usually leaves.

I told her to put the rest of his stuff outside and if he doesnt pick it up, then the garbage man can take it.

I dont know what to do for her. I offered to let her stay at my house but its too far from work.

She should get a order of protection against him. Tell the police she fears for her life.

Good news! My bff called and the Judge awarded her a PPO good until May 2009 WHOOOHOOOOO!

Great news! A man like that is dangerous.