I don't know what to do. Vegas either has opened my eyes or the drinks were spiked.

I had a wonderful time with my friend. The year of talking and finally having the chance to meet up and hang out. I really think in a different situation, we would be perfect. We picked right off where we left off and it's like all that time had never even happened. It was wonderful hanging out with him and we had some many good laughs talking about our childhoods and our making out in 7th grade in his living room. Just everything was awesome.

His life is so crazy, and I brought him some normal for a couple days and he brought me some crazy for a couple days. He is in a band and is making it out there. He is awesome with those awesome dreams. We talked about everything, dating, marriage...everything. He said he'll never marry because every time he tries to date, the jealous fit of a female comes out. I said he needs to find someone who isn't drunk by noon and isn't fried to bad by the sun. He agreed.

I want to go back really bad. I liked it there. I am at a crossroad to make a choice though.

UNLV has an Education program, I could be near my friend and have a bit more active lifestyle then living here in podunk WA where I hate it.

I don't want to come across as a stalker girl with my friend because he has his own life, his own worries and his own dreams, which only include me as a friend and that's awesome.

My friends are all supportive of me. They are all saying the God gives you options and this may be my chance to see what happens. I may be walking into my dream job out there, I may end up with my dream man, or my dream bestest friend. I may hate it and move back, but I don't know what I should do.

My husband has plans and it is about 99% obvious that it does not include us, so instead of sitting around wondering if and when it'll happen, should I just make it happen?

UNLV already contacted me back and gave me all the information about the program there. Go Rebels!

I have never EVER been so confused in my life, I really don't even know how to bring this up to my friend, I don't want to freak him out with the possiblity or even that the thought crossed my mind of moving out there.

I so need some advice here. thx

Amy has given you some good advice here....something you should think about seriously....

Being a long time resident of Las Vegas and still have business ties and a home there I'll take Amy's advice a step deeper.
This line right here really stuck out for me.."have a bit more active lifestyle then living here in podunk WA"...
Maybe podunk aint so bad cuz I'll tell you something...Vegas isn't about having a "bit" more activity....
Not hard to get sucked into the fast lane in Vegas and once you're there it's hard to get out of it...
Especially if one has an itch as it sounds that you do....
And Las Vegas eats people up and spits them out with no remorse....
Last number I remember seeing was 5000 people a month move to Vegas....
Near 2500 p/month leave Vegas.....approx 1200 of those fall completely of the radar....scary....

Not that you couldn't handle it people do..but..seriously trying to mix school/work and fun in Vegas doesn't work to well.
One usually ends up having to pick one of the above....
Most of those working to improve their lot in life can't wait to get the helll out....


My advice...think looooong and hard.....there's more to Vegas than meets the eye....