So my ex-in laws are in town and making a big deal about seeing me before leaving. They are also attmepting to convince my ex that he should make another attempt at getting me back...not going to happen...not today and not in this lifetime. His mother has basically told him either get me back or she's disowning him...I don't think she'd really follow through with this though. The thing is these people are staying with him and his new girlfriend. Today he shows up at my office with the I miss you wanted to see you story so I got him to leave with the excuse I had clients to see. Then he's called me like 5 times to tell me that he still loves me and that he isn't happy. Well gee maybe you should have thought about that before having "coffee" with three or four other people last year when I was playing G.I. Jane in the mountains of Afghanistan, or when I was eight months pregnant with your third child, or...well you get the picture. This man has apparently lost his mind or hit his head one of the two. I really think his parents are behind this little scene. He told me while ago he was sorry he called and upset me, I was thinking in my head "I'm not upset, I'm not saying anything b/c if I do I'm going to start laughing". Anyway, I just thought I'd share this lovely story.

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His mother has basically told him either get me back or she's disowning him...I don't think she'd really follow through with this though. The thing is these people are staying with him and his new girlfriend.

Can't help but love the karma here....
The girlfriend is probably having a great time aye...

Yeah, this whole thing reminds me of Big Bobby's post about the older generation and the idea of committment despite any problem. Still, I think your more than justified in kicking this guy to the curb. Just reassure his parents that they will always be grandma and grandpa and nothing will change that. I'm with HB on how the girlfriend must feel. Here he is professing his love to you while still living with her. What a loser.

what goes around....comes around...

I have the same philosophy as Amy. If he can cheat on her with you, then he will cheat on you with someone else. Its a vicious cycle.

Anyho, I'm glad you are standing your ground. You deserve a man who . . . well quite simply a man. Someone who will respect you and be with you and only you.