Hello everyone! I just though i would introduce myself. I am a 24 year old single mother of soon to be four children. I have a 5 year old daughter, Courtney, a 4 year old son, Damion, a 1 year old daughter, Gracelyn, and am due to have another little girl in February. Hope to get to know some nice people that don't judge.

welcome! This site is full of very nice people. I'm sure you will enjoy it!

Hi Nikki,

Welcome to the site! I'm fairly new to it also. I think you will find that there are a lot of nice people here.

Rob

Hi! I am a 26yr old single mom of soon to be 4 children also!! Although I'm pretty sure everything is going to be ok, i have to admit at times I'm scared to death. Just wondering how you feel about it. I love my kids so much, they are my life. My son is 9 and my girls are 5 and 3. I guess I'm just worried about work and school and taking care of all them. I want to be able to give them all the time and attention they need but I'm so afraid it's going to be so hard. So much is changing for all of us, I just want to make it all good changes!

was also wondering about other people's attitude towards you. People are so rude!! I don't know if it's because i'm young with 4 kids, or single, or what but they are rude. I work hard, i do everything for my kids, and they are very happy and well behaved. Even people that I work with every day have shown me a diiferent side of them. I got some very negative comments made about the whole situation, as if it effects their life at all!

You will find people a lot of people can be insensitive, I assure you I draw some wierd looks from people when they see me with my girls sometimes. I sometimes wonder if they think I am a pervert or something. But they keep there negative comments to there self . No one will judge you here, we all are in the same boat, and age means nothing because we shoulder a burden few will ever understand. Peace

Kelly
Hi its Nikki. Yes I often get comments about me being pregnant with my 4th child, but i just have to ignore them. I know everything will be ok as it is now. The way i see it is whats one more when i already have three. And i work hard everyday to take care of my children and i love them very much and thats all that matters to me.

You have got the right attitude Nikki. I am in the same boat, I am eighteen with four daughters. You should see the looks I get, but I just don't care, because if a person can't see me for who I really am then who needs them anyway? Just take care of the kids and live your life to the fullest, and be the best mom and person that you can be!

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