Hello i just got done joining this web site a few seconds ago i am going to tell you alittle about me i had my twin boys when i was 1 almost 17. They are identical their birth weights was 5.2 pounds & 5.5 pounds i carried them for 39 weeks and 2 days and had to be induced. Everything went really well threw my whole pregancy. Thank god. My boys names are aaron william and alexander wallace their birthday is aug 21st of 2003 .. how they grown so fast. Almost been two years WOW! well here it goes on why i am single i was abused by their dad "todd" He threw me outta a car when he was going 25 mphs. this happened the day i got out of the hospital they were 4 days old..... it was a bad thing to happen to me ( his babies mom) He is a dead beat dad never ever seen anyone else like him he doesnt help me out with my boys he doesnt come and see them he thinks that i cant go get child supprt going But i am in the process in doing that . I work at a local grocery store making 6:30 and hour NOT ENOUGH TO SUPPORT MY TWINS AT ALL . I am almost had it with all the men in this world they think if a girl has kids that they cant date her bc it will make them look bad. OK WHAT EVER i gotta worry about my boys not no guy right now. anyways i think that is enough about us hope to meet new people here. thanks alot of the help guys Xoxo

Hi!! :welcome:


I have fraternal twins, a boy and a girl, Douglas Andrew and Bailey Alexandra! They are 5. Sorry to hear about the boys' dad. How long have you been separated? I have been alone for almost 4 years. It has been hard, but sooooooo worth it.
Things will get easier, I promise! I have to run, but again, welcome to the site. I look forward to getting to know you!


Brandi

Hey Ashley, we've got quite a bit in common. I'm 18 and I have triplets, identical girls. I got pregnant when I was 13 and I had them on october 14, 2000, at 31 weeks. My girls names are Lorelai Leigh, Piper Marie and Phoebe Alyssa. Their father isn't in the picture either. I like it that way, it was a one night stand and he was a total *******. We're all so much better off without him.

I am pregnant again... 12 weeks. I have been with the father for a year and a half, and he is thrilled. We're not living together right now, but we are looking to buy a place in the next few months. He has always been like a father to my girls, even before we started dating (we met when I was pregnant with the triplets, and we were really great friends)He has been there for the girls their whole life. I am so happy the way things are now and I can't wait to add little Luca or Lena ( don't know the gender yet) to our family.

I know how difficult it is to be a teen with multiples and just being a teen mom in general, it's a tough job.At some point they say it gets easier, but I haven't reached that point in the past five years. And I know how frustrating it can be because you just want to be like a normal teen, but of course you're not. There are sacrafices we have to make as young moms, but the rewards are so much greater. We get to see our children grow and develope into their own indevidual person. It truly is lifes greatest gift.

I know in my case that I wouldn't change anything for the world. I do believe that everything happens for a reason. Sure, we had to learn all these great life lessons much earlier in life then many, but don't you think that we are now ahead of the game in the long run? In the end everything will work out for all of us.

We're lucky to have a place like this where we can come and talk to others in our positins. I know that it can **** trying to talk to your friends about all this. I know my freinds always wanted to talk about fashion and boys and whatnot, but I was always talking about diapers and teething... LOL. I look forward to getting to know you.

I also have id twin girls (turned 5 on the 4th) plus another girl just about a year and a half older.

Hi Ashley. Welcome, I too just joined this site yesterday and am looking for some type of support and advice. I have a 14 hyr old son who lives 75% of the time with my ex husband in another state and I have a 7 yr old daughter who lives with me all the time. I am pregnant with twins by her daddy. I broke up with him a week before I found out I was pregnant. So I will be having them and raising them alone. He will be going back to prison soon and I won't be able to get any child support from him for several years because of it. I make too much money to get state assistance, yet not nearly enough to support all of us. It's overwhelming when I really think about it.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy the site, I have high hopes someone here can relate to my cause. LOL
God bless you and your boys!
Michelle

wow alot of you are very young to have children, congrats! My cousin, Lainie was 12 when she had her twin girls Anna and Amy. It turns out she was being abused by her boyfriend who was three years older than her. Now she's fine and her girls are being babysat by her mom.