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I am New to SFV |
Hi...I am new to the site, but am in need of some serious sharing! I am a single mother of a 2 year old boy and live a few states away from my family. I have been seeing a man for over a year and am not happy with him. He agreed to allow me to haev some space when we talked about it all last week and then a few days ago, I found out I was pregnant with his child. I do not want to marry this man or commit to a relationship with him. I am scared to death. however, of what kind of future I will have with 2 children from two different fathers! My ex-husband thinks we should get back and raise our child, plus this new baby, but wow...I am overwhelmed. And advice?
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I am New to SFV |
Break it off w/ the one who doesn't do it for u cause it'll only get worse. If u think he's annoying now wait till finacial and emotional stress like children come into play.
2nd don't rebound to ur Ex. Remember it's always u'r choice, nobodyelse. 3rd someone once told me that an X is an X for a reason. Just listen to the small; still inner voice for reason. Don't b swayed by flattery and ego or any external pressure and u'll fine u'r own way. Hope this helps. Let me know what u decide? |
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"Moderator Proud father/grandfather" SFV JUNKIE!!! |
Welcome to both of you.
my advice, don't feel "rushed" into deciding anything at the moment. Let it all finish sinking in and make any decisions after a good amount of reflection....No one says that you need either of those guys to make it just fine.    |
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I am New to SFV |
Don,
Your baby girl is just precious! Thanks for welcoming me. |
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"Every thought we think is creating our future" Setting New Standards |
I am a single mother of 2 children, one of which is from my exhusband, and one from ex fiance. I've done it alone through both. I was pregnant and alone both times. I thought about getting back together with one of them (and almost have). I have a 2 year old and a 5 month old. It gets easier, I promise.  Erin <a href="http://s261.photobucket.com/albums/ii78/moonpiesinheaven/?action=view¤t=ErinandAyden5-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii78/moonpiesinheaven/ErinandAyden5-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a> <a href="http://s261.photobucket.com/albums/ii78/moonpiesinheaven/?action=view¤t=June2008037-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii78/moonpiesinheaven/June2008037-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a> |
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