Hello everyone, thank you all so much for your replies and support. You all helped me out a lot and made me feel much better about my situation. I made my decision and im keeping my babyi am actually getting pretty excited. I haven't told the babys dad yet im not sure when to tell him, i was thinking about telling him after my first appointment. I am really scared and nervous to tell him because im afraid of what his reaction might be. I also got a job so now i have a lot less stress on me I have been sick for 3 weeks now, i have sinusitis it really sucks not being able to take medicine...i hope this goes away before i start work...grrrr!!!!!! Well i hope everyone is doing well and thanks again for all the support!! Love, Nicole

I'm so glad you made that decision. Trust me, you will not regret it. There are times that are hard, and you will question yourself, but then when you see your child smile, it makes it all worthwhile. Then they learn to talk and just jabber all the time. Nothing is better than holding my kids. I love the feeling I get when they come hug me for no reason and say to me, "I love you, Mommy." It makes all the worries melt away. Good luck, and I hope to see you around more!

Hey Nicole. I am very pleased to see that you made the decision you did. It is a hard one to make but one that is the most important. As for what the dad thinks...really you should not care. You already know what he thought and it should be no surprise to you what he will think now but waht he thinks really does not change what you have decided to do and like it or not your decision is the only one that makes a difference. If i remember right you guys are not together right? Do not fear what he thinks becasue no matter what he thinks, he can't DO anything about it.

I will be thinking of you and have since your post. Please keep us updated.

I'm very glad to hear to have made your dicussion. Now you can spend your time getting ready for your little bundle of joy. It will all be worth it! Do not bother worry yourself about what the dad will say. Focus on you and your growing baby and enjoy your pregnancy.

Hey Nicole,

I am so happy to see that you made the decision to keep your baby. You will come to find that life will be so much better with your child in it than out of it. As for the Dad, tell him as soon as possible just to get it off your chest. You can't control what he will say or feel. And no need to search for the perfect words to tell him, just spit the truth. If he chooses to stay then you have met a man who accepts responsibility; if he chooses to leave then you have weeded out a boy who is not worth your time. Good Luck to you.

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