Ok so as some of you know I started a new job a couple weeks ago, and although its cool and we have fun, I am the ONLY single parent/person there!I like being single but feel sort of disenfranchised because of this. The only other girl who is single is only this way because her bf died just like 2 days ago. There are some fine guys there too, but of course they are taken!
So the weird thing is this one guy that I kind of liked and was flirting with me called me at home, we started taling and he told me he has a fiance, but that he dont really want to get married then he was inviting me to work out at his house with him, and I said wont his gf get mad and he said no, shes not jealous at all. Then today he said "I told her you would be coming over to work out with me" but I dont want to! I get a feeling something is weird here, like maybe he and his woman are swingers or something....anyways .......
Why do I always meet the weird ones?

Wow ...I'm with you, something sounds weird there. Either that or he really didn't tell his gf and is just saying that. If it was at a club or something like that, I would say go for it but since its at his house ...ummm that's alright!

Congrats, TS! That was a booty call!!

If you were taking votes on this one, I'd go with Booty call.

Eeeeeew . He sounds nasty. What a freak.

Oh come on you all! Maybe he's just looking for a friend to exercise with. Maybe he needs female companion to help him decide whether to go through with his mariage or not. Maybe he's getting cold feet. Maybe he's attracted to you and wants to test his boundaries - be true to his heart, see if he's capable of being comitted. Maybe maybe maybe ..

heheh - i like to put a spin on things. Just a different perspective here.

I'm still going with Booty Call. You could always go and find out what it really is he's looking for.

I say booty call....go and find out so you can report back to us!!!

I'm having to agree. Booty call! Don't put yourself in that position. You are much smarter than that, TS!

So, for me poor ignorant foreigner: what's a booty call ?

booty call - verb �1: the act of calling or contacting a person for the sole purpose of having s__. �
n 2: a person that is the recipient of such a call

ah
(thanks)
I guess if it happens between adults, with full knowledge, in full conscience and in mutual agreement...what is there to say against it

Hmmmm, maybe we should ask the fiancee what she thinks about it? LOL

OK, sorry, I was not thinking of these 2, just in general.

No Red, I knew what you meant. I guess I just get kinda irritated when I hear people not taking commitment (and I do think that being engaged is a commitment) seriously. I once was in a weigh training class with this really hot guy named Tyrone and I knew from the begining that he was married with a kid on the way. He always asked me to go eat with him and made comments like I told my wife about you and how you do such and such. As soon as class was over I made sure to avoid him.

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Originally posted by DrewsDad:
[qb] Hey Lefty... I see that your into motorcycles... I got one I'll sell ya. Since I became a Dad, I'm affraid to ride anymore! [/qb]

I went through that "phase" for a short period too..

I'm over it. The bike I ride now I built, I'm currently building a mini-bike for Jack!

I'll take your bait though, whadda you got?

TS: Sorry so late to join in here. I'm getting caught up while I'm supposed to be doing a zillion things around the house.

So, this is a guy you work with - he is seriously involved - made sure you knew that he wasn't interested in a committment w/her - and then invited you to get all sweaty at his house?

A. Job more important than a guy
B. Guy is a creep to talk about his fiancee like that behind her back
C. Do you really want to be that girl they talk about who is scandalous in her first weeks of the job?

Yeah... I agree with you all! It wouldnt be so strange that he wanted me to work out with him if he acted just friendly, but he was definately showing signs of interest. The fact that his gf is so open to the whole thing of me going over makes me suspicious of the whole thing. If he was uninvolved with someone it would be a different story...but get this:hes an ex-marine ex-cop turned biker (and bikers are not my type, but hes not the usual long beard scruffy looking kind, he is nice looking) with a lot of tatoos.
I wont go over there, but I think I need to go out this weekend with my gils and get away from these men! Oh, theres also this one that keeps calling me like every day (we dated for about month and the last time I spent any time with him was like 2 months ago)He cant understand why I dont like him, but Ive always told him I didnt wan a serious relationship, but he kept pestering me to the point I dont answer his calls .(Remember that song Bugaboo by Destinys Child? Thats him!
I told you I have bad luck and meet all the weirdos and losers! LOL

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Originally posted by Tucson Superwoman:
[qb] I told you I have bad luck and meet all the weirdos and losers! LOL [/qb]

Ya I hear ya sister! lol I've had my share of strange encounters. Maybe it's because we've finally been able to remove them rose-coloured glasses - where everyone seems to be so darn perfect. I smell red flags a mile awaaaay..

"Just keep looking, looking, looking!!" [Finding Nemo]

*cough*booty call*cough*

yeah sounds kinda weird to me, i'd stay away

Gabriels Mom - I love your quote, its just so funny, but true.