Hello, My name is Cynthia and I signed up for this group to get as much info as I can to help my little bro. Quick synopsis of the situation:

Brother joined the Air Force in March '06, married his fiance in June '06. The plan was that she would move in with him as soon as he got base housing (there's a waiting list). Since that time he has turned down 2 houses on base because she has refused to move in with him. She is now about 6 mo along, (still) refusing to move in with him, threatening to give the baby up, threatening to divorce him, basically treating him like ****.

Brother needs all the help and support he can get from family and friends. What I would like is starting places of things to tell him like, what are his legal rights to his unborn child (how to get custody, etc), where can he go for info on raising an infant alone (he's never changed a diaper) and how can I best support him emotionally (he's afraid of what people will think if he divorces his pregnant wife).

The thing that sucks is I live in NC, he's in ND, and the wife is in WI.

HELP! And thank you all. I don't know you yet, but props to you on doing a great job at something that's not easy.

Cynthia