Hi i've just found this site. I'm a divorced mum of 4, and now 13 weeks pregnant to my new partner who has no kids. We had a rough year last year with having 3 miscarriages. This pregnancy was planned and he was very excited about becoming a dad. Now just last week he decides we have too many relationship problems and dosent want anything to do with me now. Hes moved out of our home, im unemployed at the moment,and has no money to help me. Ive been considering abortion, but also have no money for that.I really dont want to do that as this is a wanted baby, but i dont know how im going to cope alone with all this..any suggestions?

Hello, single mom of 3,girls I'm 26yrs old..
And I just want to tell you how much empithy I have for you.. Things have to be hard on you write now.. Do you have a profession you would like / are able to start.. There is a lot of goverment help out there first thing first would be get a job really anything.. YOu can always look for something better ya know.. Second Gosh I don't know if you have it where you are but its called DES here (department of economic sercurity) They really help out in times of need.. They can even help with daycares in your neighber hood. They determine it on your income..everything is.. They really don't take into accout real property like homes or vehcials they realise you need those things..Medical insurance for your children and self if employer dosn't offer it.. Or it is to pricie..Any way I know its going to be tuff..but it's true- dreams are endless. And any goal can be ecomplished if you put your mind to it.. I hope you keep us informed and post again if you ever want to chat I'm here

What a tough spot this is for you right now!! I feel so badly for you. I don't know how it is in Australia, but in the USA there are millions of couples who want to adopt babies because they can't have children of their own. I had an abortion years ago and I promise you if you do that you will regret it. I have two wonderful children now and it breaks my heart that I was responsible for the death of the one I aborted. Don't do it. It will stay with you forever.

Here we have Pregnancy Assistance or Pregnancy Resource Centers that will help in these situations. Do you have that option there?

Take care.

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[qb]Hi i've just found this site. I'm a divorced mum of 4, and now 13 weeks pregnant to my new partner who has no kids. We had a rough year last year with having 3 miscarriages. This pregnancy was planned and he was very excited about becoming a dad. Now just last week he decides we have too many relationship problems and dosent want anything to do with me now. Hes moved out of our home, im unemployed at the moment,and has no money to help me. Ive been considering abortion, but also have no money for that.I really dont want to do that as this is a wanted baby, but i dont know how im going to cope alone with all this..any suggestions?[/qb]