I am going on to my six months of pregnancies and at this point still clueless about whether the father wants to be a part of my baby life. It sounds really bad( I know) but in all honesty this pregnancy was unplanned but I know that I will go through with and I love my baby. It is going to be hard. Since he found out, he clearly told me that he doesnt want anything to do with it. Yet I somehow manage to pursuave him into the idea. Is that wrong? There are sometimes he acts like he does care about me and the baby yet other times his answer to my questions are " I DONT KNOW" that makes me upset and hurt. I need a good final answer. I hate lingering and waiting and waiting. Recently I asked him if he was going to be there for the delivery of the baby and he said he doesnt know. What should I do? Should I move on and try my best or should I go on holding in my feelings and not knowing what is next with the father of my child?
Thank you so much

Graceful Mommy,
I am so sorry for the position you are in! But you can only focus on yourself and control yourself. That beautiful baby needs happy loving vibes and the dad doesn't want to be a part of that it's not your fault. It takes two people to have a baby. It's so easy to give advice but if you can, concentrate on being the baby's mommy and let him find his way. I bet once he meets that beautiful baby it will be hard for him to resist.

Thank u pinkflwr. I havent been able to sleep well and your words just made it much better. I know its going to be hard and I cant help but just feel bad , I know it will take some time. Thank you.
Grace

HI

Congratulations with your pregnancy!

Try as much as you can to concentrate on yourself and your pregnancy. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Don't let his indecions distract you from what is important now and that is you and your baby!! Be strong for the both of you.

You have come to the right place. You will always find people here who understand what you are going thru.