hi i am newto the site, 25yrs old and thirty-one weeks pregnant by a married man.I knew he was married from the start and i take full blame for that mistake/sin which i have since forgiven myself for.He is helping with the baby's stuff and hospital bills, even though i can afford, he says he wants to be there for his child & i feel i cannot cut him off from his child.The problem is, i realised my mistake and i dont want to keep hanging in the relationship anymore, this i have made very clear to him.Now he wont take it,he comes around to see how i am once in a week at most and he wants ***. He wont take no for an answer and i cannot restle a man at 31 weeks prego.If i go to the police i wont have a case because in this part of the world a second wife is acceptable. I believe i God but i just dont know what to do anymore. Back then we had a wonderful relationship and my family knows him. i have told them openly i am pregnant by him and they are supportive but they dont understand why i want to be on my own. i dont want to be the other woman/wife the rest of my life, but as it stands no man would and can come close to me because he is there according to the system here.What do i do?

I'm trully sorry that you have been having to deal with this all. In a since I know what you are going through my son's dad wasn't married but he was dating someone else too and she got pregnant 3 months after i did. I think the you need to figure out what is going to be best for your baby. Sometimes in life we as parents end up making decisions that are hard for us but is best for our kids. I understand that he still comes around but If you really don't want him to you need to try and ignore him. I had to tell my son's dad he was no longer welcome for reason that are very personal. It was hard but I knew it was the right chose. That little baby will be just fine if you choose to go it alone. But you are in a totally different culture then where I am so maybe this advise will not work. Just know that if you do belive in God that he will never forsake you. I pray that everything works out for you. God Bless