I thought I was all alone and then I typed single and pregnant into the search engine and this site popped up. I really can't believe there are other women out there going through nearly the same thing as I am. This is my first baby and I would have never ever imagined that I would be alone during such an important time but the father just doesnt want the baby he told me to get an abortion and that i would have to pay for it he also told me that if I have this baby that I wouldn't be anything I will never finish school and I will be on my 'knees' trying to get rent money that was low and all of that came out the mouth of the man who just the day before i told him I was pregnant went around telling all his friends that he wanted to marry me What happened? I got pregnant and now that no good son of a butt head is saying we were never even in a committed relationship!!! Can yall believe that I can and then I can't. I can't because I actually trusted him and I can because I have never had the best of luck with men Well I guess somethings never change so I guess he will never change either. What I can't understand though is if he doesn't want me the why does he answer my calls why does he return my calls Why am I even calling He doesn't call me the only time I talk to him is if I call I hope I haven't rambled too much but this felt really good talking about him to someone that can actually understand what I am going through than with people who only offer he aint no good and forget about him I know I have to do that and I dont want child support :angry: I just want to be over him He said I wouldn't get any anyway because he can change his ssn and duck the courts what an a@#hole I asked God what did I do wrong to deserve such a jacka@# of a man in my life or for that matter any of the men that I have allowed into my life I think the answer is within me I recognize BS when I smell it and still I keep pushing hoping that he will come around to see that I love him Thank You for reading this very long message

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Hello Hope4joy and welcome to the forum. Sounds like you are having a hard time, I am sorry for that. I do hope things get better for you soon.
God bless.

Hey hope4joy. Sometimes good people end up in situations like these. We have the best of intentions but we still get handed lemons. Your guy sounds a lot like mine. I keep telling myself he'll get what's coming to him. Meanwhile, about the school thing...It's going to be hard (I'm about 8 months along and I'm a senior in college. I'm due in the middle of a semester.) but you can do it if you want it bad enough. Don't let anyone tell you you can't do it or anything else for that matter. You need positive people right now and hopefully you'll find a lot of that here. Good luck!