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quote: Originally posted by lonely and broke:
[qb]I am a recently single mother of two and 6 weeks pregnent. I live on a small Island in Hawaii. I bet most of you think I am in paradise, but I have lost all positivity. I am 28 years old and recently found out My husband failed to tell me he was married to another woman all this time, and we decided to seperate untill he decides to work this out. Somehow he blames me and decides to rage ond destroy all the childrens belongings and clothes (we didnt have much to begin with) he destroyed the house and attempted to destroy me. Long story short he is awaiting trial on attempted murder2 and destruction of property. I am just plum out of options, the only family I have I have to take care of and be strong for. There is not alot of resourses here. We have 2 thrift stores and one food bank. I recently applied for food stamps, We have to eat. I work full time but half of my income goes to child care. I am hoping to get some feedback or support I already feel better just being able to talk about it. It only gets better right?[/qb]
It's so sad what these men put us through. I have gone through my own personal hell with my son's father. What has been getting me through it is knowing that "IT WILL PASS" You have to go in the bathroom look in the mirror take a deep breath, and remember you have to be strong for your kids. Because your husband will use your weakness as a weapon against you, I have had many sleepless nights. I hope this helps. Also now that you are a single mom there must be some type of child care program available. Good luck and God Bless. |
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