OKAY SO I'M REALLY REALLY IN A WEIRD SITUATION THAT I DON'T THINK ALOT OF OTHER WOMEN ARE IN .. BUT HERE'S THE DEAL. I AM 20 YRS. OLD I GOT PREGNANT WHILE I WAS STILL 19, BUT BY A YOUNGER GUY. WELL AT THE TIME, HE HAD LIED TO ME AND SAID HE WAS 18 WHICH WAS FINE BECAUSE HE WAS OF AGE AND I DIDN'T WANT ANY PROBLEMS, WELL AFTER DATING FOR A MONTH HE DECIDES TO "COME CLEAN" AND TELL ME HE WAS REALLY 17 .. I THOUGHT WELL SINCE I KNOW HIS PARENTS AND EVERYTHING SEEMS TO BE COOL WITH THEM LETS SEE IF THIS CAN KEEP WORKING.. OBVIOUSLY NOT BECAUSE IT BECAME A HUGE DEAL TO ME. THE LAST DAY I SAW HIM I SAW HIS I.D. AND I FOUND OUT HE WAS REALLY ONLY 16 YEARS OLD! SO I CUT IT OFF WITH HIM COMPLETELY. WELL, LATER I FOUND OUT THAT, YUP I'M PREGNANT .. BY HIM .. NOW... HE KNOWS ABOUT IT AND HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME.. FINE, YOU KNOW I DON'T WANT HIM IN MY LIFE BUT HE CAN BE IN THE BABY'S LIFE IF HE CHOSE TO, OBVIOUSLY HE DOESNT BECAUSE IM ALMOST 7 MONTHS PREGNANT AND THE ONLY COMMUNICATION WE'VE HAD WAS ARGUING BECAUSE HE WANTED ME TO GET AN ABORTION, TRYING TO BRIBE ME AND SAY HE'D PAY FOR IT... BUT SINCE MY ANSWER KEPT BEING NO, HE JUST NEVER CALLED BACK ANYMORE. NOW HERE'S THE THING. I CAN FILE FOR CHILD SUPPORT AND GET IT OUT OF HIS PARENTS, BUT THERE IS THE CHANCE THAT THEY MIGHT TRY TO TURN ON ME AND MAKE ME SOUND LIKE THE BAD GUY. MY FEAR IS THAT THEY'LL TAKE ME TO COURT AND TRY TO SAY THAT I RAPED THEIR SON BECAUSE HE'S UNDER AGE THAT IS WHY I HAVEN'T TOLD HIS PARENTS OR THE GOVERNMENT THAT IS HELPING ME RIGHT NOW, THAT HE IS THE FATHER BECAUSE THAT IS MY FEAR, THAT I WILL GET SENT TO JAIL AND/OR GET MY BABY TAKEN AWAY FROM ME. HE IS NOW 17, AND THE QUESTION THAT HAS BEEN ON MY MIND IS... ONCE HE TURNS 18 NEXT YEAR .. CAN I FILE FOR A PATERNITY TEST AND GET HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT WITHOUT ME GETTING INTO ANY KIND OF TROUBLE WITH THE LAW? IF ANYONE HAS ANY SORT OF ANSWER FOR ME AND ARE AWARE OF CALIFORNIA LAWS TOWARDS THIS TYPE OF SITUATION PLEASE LET ME KNOW . THANK YOU


-RAQUEL

Hello and welcome to the forum. I honestly think that you need to talk to attorney. attorney will give your legal rights.

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