Wow, I am terrified that my ex will try to do this to me. I realize that my situation is extremely different because my ex told me that she miscaried at 14 weeks because I was upset that I just got out of a 10 yr relationship with a woman that I still have strong feelings for and the new lady said she could not get pregnant. She did not want to use protection because it did not feel good and against my better judgment, complaints, I gave in. She looked me in the eye and said she was told pregnancey could not happen. Then she was pregnant. Now at 22 weeks she has disappeared, told everyone that I am a drug addict to protect her and I have no way to contact her. I have to add myself to a Punitive fathers list just to keep her from adopting the baby away or letting some other man adopt. She most likely has no insurance, so I will not only miss the birth of my first born and SON, I will have to pay back half of her expenses. Why could I not have a normal woman? Life is a *****! I will have to hire a private eye to serve her with papers, cant smoke the herb at all for fear of loosing my rights and still may never see my son. I will take care of the kid, but have no desire to take care of another adult as well. And after she realized that she bolted. Fun times.