Hey-
So what is everyone's New Year Resolutions?

Of course one of mine which has been for quite some years is to lose wieght. But I am closer than I was 2 yrs ago. I'd like to drop 15-20 lbs.

I want to get my divorce over and done with.

And I want to go back to school!

I think that's it for now. I may add some later. I think it's great to set goals. It gives me something to look forward to.

I know that the new year is still some time off, but I figure, why not start early. Here are a few of mine for the list I've started for 2005!!!

1. Lose weight - I've already started, but really need to get serious.

2. Go back to school. I've been wanting to for a while, but haven't yet.

3. Get my finances back on track. They have gotten out of whack w/all that has happened this year, but I know that 2005 will be better.

4. This is the most important one yet: Spend more quality time w/my son. We spend time together, but not as much quality time as I would like. I think that needs to change, and only I can change it.

5. Finally finish at least one of my many books that have been started and not finished yet! I will finish writing one of them and get it published. Notice that I was positive and didn't say hopefully!!!

I know there will be tons more, but this is what I have for now.

can't think of anything....
I must be perfect and my life as well
If I could just make a wish, it would be for everything to remain the way it is.

To get paternity established and support for my son.

To spend 1 day each month with just my Daughter.

Already? sheesh! Okay here goes:

1. get a gym membership and actually go. Something I have been talking about since last new years, but its been a rough year, financially.

2. Spend more time w/ my new "family", me, my son, and my bf. Our schedules are crazy and we have very little time to spend together. I want to try to have a family day once a month or so, where the three of us go out to a park or something together as a family.

3. Go to a credit couselor and see what I can do about fixing my credit problems.