Here is the scenario....I still love my daughter's daddy with all of my heart and I have tried for 3 years to make things work with him. Well, just recently I sort of started dating someone and all of a sudden Britaney's daddy wants to make things work. And he don't even know about this other guy. Well, I told him we could take things slowly...And then I did tell him I was seeing this other guy. And all of a sudden he tells me that he is not going to let me have Britaney back if that guy is around because he don't want "his" daughter around him. I don't want to risk losing my daughter but I don't think it is right for him to do that. I don't know.

who has legal custody of the child? if it's not working out after 3 months then it's probably time to move on. good luck!
tasha

obviously he isnt worth "waiting" for if he wants to hurt you so bad by making such a threat. i dont know for sure but i dont think he can keep you from your little girl if your seeing smeone. Unless the gentleman you are seeing did something to hurt your daughter, which i doubt. Sometimes our heart holds on doesnt always mean we should follow it. Ive been there before, if you have to go insane trying to keep someone in your life, if all it is is an uphill battle sometimes its not worth it. i really dont think your ex can do anything, but before you make a choice, decided why you love him, was it because of how he was 3 years ago, has he changed at all? do you feel obliged to be with him cuz hes your daughters father? a billion other questions to ask yourself those are just an example. Alot of us have been there.........hang in there.
GOOD LUCK with whatever you choose, and remember you do have support

Kick him to the curb: He is a control nut. and that seed only blooms to a big narly tree. Once grown it will be hard to cut it down and much more time to get out from under.

Just think through why you are doing what you are doing and the pro and cons to it all. Then follow your heart.

What ever chooses you make you are the one to have to live with the consequences. So choose wisely, you won�t die if you take your time.

And if worst come to worst, and the control frrreek brings you to court you will be able to have a concise understanding to your decision to tell the judge.

Tootels! and Good luck!