Hi Im new here, tonight my kids are gone, Im alone int he house and hate to be allone with my thoughts. I am struggling lately becasue things just seem to be not going my way....
finance, love, my home, etc.

I am getting my 2nd divorce and this devasdtates me....
I love my abbaies but I never htought this would be my life....
As you can tell Im ina bad place mentally right now and need some support thankyou for reading this and Ilook fwd to getting to knw the other mrmebers

Hi Darlingk, welcome!

I can't image how I'll deal when my son grows up on me and doesn't spend every weekend with me. Although I have never been married, I know how you feel with "I never thought this would be my life...". I felt the same way when I had my son, I always figured when I had kids, I'd be married and only have children with one person. I've gotten past that now, but I know the pain we put ourselves through when life doesn't go how we planned. Don't be too hard on yourself. Stick around and you'll find a lot of great people and a lot of support!

Gabriel's Mom

thanks
yes Im just in a low spot right now--your son's hair is sooooo fabulous!

married or not, it still sux, when u think yu are going to be a family and then one day you are alone taking ht etraining whells off the bike and teaching her to ride by yourself--thats what really got me feeling like this

I don't have anything to say but



Keep reading and posting.

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Originally posted by darlingk:
your son's hair is sooooo fabulous!

Thanks. I hope your low spot passes soon and you get to feeling better!

You know the rare nights I get to have to myself I feel so alone at night. Sure, I could go out and have a great time but I find myself lost in a sea of couples. What's a single dad to do?

It's hard enough after the kids go to be every night. I used to love the little bit of free time I'd have to myself. Now I kind of dread it.

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Originally posted by Michail:
You know the rare nights I get to have to myself I feel so alone at night. Sure, I could go out and have a great time but I find myself lost in a sea of couples. What's a single dad to do?

It's hard enough after the kids go to be every night. I used to love the little bit of free time I'd have to myself. Now I kind of dread it.

I had the (dis)pleasure of going out fo rone of mu friends b-days and supposed to be lots of people--ended up me,herboyfriend, her, her boyfriends room mate and HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!! 5th wheel for sure, then my friend gets mad at me and her b.f b/c we seemed to be gtting alonjf---please,
I was so hurt
what a waste of a night out...