hey im new here. I have a lil girl named zoe. shes 2 months old. Im debating in wether or not i should tell the father. im scared on how hes going to react. i didnt know i was pregnant. i got a normal period, and had no signs. the father used too abuse me. I dint tell anyone i knew accept family due to the fact a girl i talk to thinks im calling dcf on her i dont want her to do that to me so im tryin to keep it on the down low. butwhat should i do about hte father???

Hi Marisa86 and welcome to the site. Lots of great people here.
I believe honesty is the best policy. If you are afraid of his reaction you can make sure you are in a public place and have someone of support there for you.
Sounds like you might have a little gossip ring going on with this gal you spoke to. Avoid gossip and silly games, you will be fine. Just take care of your daughter.
God bless.

i dont talk to her. she calls me and harras me on the answer machine and screams cause she blames me on calling dcfs

you're in hernando county,i used to live there, but i still go back every sunday to drop off my daughter.You should definetly tell the father i think.Your daughter will probably love her father very much, but you have to leave that up to her, and give her that chance. Be safe. Feel free to write me back, im a young mom too and always in the area. Good luck!

If the baby's father abused you he WILL do so to your daughter as well if a relationship develops. Please be careful, that's not a behavior that changes.

I am in Spring Hill! Nice to see someone has even heard of this place. Anyway, I am a single father and don't understand abusive men; however, I also believe that every man has the right to at least know he is a father. What he does from there will be up to him.

If you need to talk or anything else, I am right here in town.