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Well as you all know, I'm 20 yrs. old with 3 kids and 1 on the way! After my 9 mth. year old daughter Ahjil, I got my tubes tied. Well, a couple of weeks ago I noticed what felt like a baby kicking. I went to the doctor and they broke the news to me that I was pregnant, I'm that 2% chance that this is possible. Today I turned 18 weeks, and their afraid that the baby is stuck in between my tubes. Looks as if I'm in store for a 4th child, and another baby girl!
 
Posts: 114 | Location: Richmond, VA | Registered: 18 June 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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How will they get it out of your tubes??? Is the baby or you in danger??? I heard it was not a good sing to have a tublicar pregnancy?
 
Posts: 204 | Location: Indianapolis | Registered: 11 September 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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It's a shame that your pregnancy could be etopic. Etopic Pregnancy could be a very dangerous thing if not treated in time. It's also very painful and if your not having pain or spot bleeding I wouldn't be worried. I'm 15 weeks pregnant myself and when I first got the good news my doctor was worried that my pregnancy would be etopic. So we did an ultrasound and ruled that out right away. You see, about six months prior to my pregnancy I had exploratory surgery to cut a mass off of my right ovary. Well, when they opened me up they got an unexpected surprise. My fallopian tubes were bonded to my uterus. So they had to cut them free. They were scared from the surgery and that's why they thought my pregnancy would be etopic. By the grace of god everything is just fine. I must say god defiantly went above and beyond to makes sure I have this baby. I got pregnant on birth control (for everybody reading this don't use the patch) and on top of that I bled really bad in my seventh week. I went to the emergency room and they were sure I would miscarry within 24 hours. I'm still pregnant and the baby's doing great. I think that your a very strong woman!!! Not every woman could be the mother of four. Especially at such a young age. I commend you fully! Well, if you ever want to chat just send me a message. And good luck!!!
 
Posts: 71 | Location: Fort Huachuca, AZ | Registered: 10 September 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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My doctor said he's not worried so much as if I'm in danger, he's also surprised that the baby is growing and developing normally; As far as sharp pains...no, I haven't expereinced any of those. He did refer me to another doctor for a second opinion on rather or not my pregnancy will be at too high of a risk. If ShaNiyah pulls through she'll truly be my miracle baby; my fiance wants to name her Miracle.
He, as well as my kids are hoping for one more addition to the family...Pray for me!
 
Posts: 114 | Location: Richmond, VA | Registered: 18 June 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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You and your mirical baby and your family are in our prayers if this is Gods chose you will have a new additon the the famliy!! keep your head up!!! I will pray for you
Amanda
 
Posts: 204 | Location: Indianapolis | Registered: 11 September 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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I just wanted everybody to know that my baby girl is a fighter and going to make it. I'm 20 weeks pregnant now, so I'm halfway through my pregnancy. My fiance and I have decided to name her ShaNiyah Miracle Taylor (which is his last name). Thanks for all the encouraging words and support.
 
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Congratulations! I'm so happy for you! I wish you nothing but the best!
 
Posts: 71 | Location: Fort Huachuca, AZ | Registered: 10 September 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Well everybody I just wanted to let you all know that I'm 22 weeks today! My baby is perfectly healthy.
 
Posts: 114 | Location: Richmond, VA | Registered: 18 June 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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[qb]It's a shame that your pregnancy could be etopic. Etopic Pregnancy could be a very dangerous thing if not treated in time. It's also very painful and if your not having pain or spot bleeding I wouldn't be worried. I'm 15 weeks pregnant myself and when I first got the good news my doctor was worried that my pregnancy would be etopic. So we did an ultrasound and ruled that out right away. You see, about six months prior to my pregnancy I had exploratory surgery to cut a mass off of my right ovary. Well, when they opened me up they got an unexpected surprise. My fallopian tubes were bonded to my uterus. So they had to cut them free. They were scared from the surgery and that's why they thought my pregnancy would be etopic. By the grace of god everything is just fine. I must say god defiantly went above and beyond to makes sure I have this baby. I got pregnant on birth control (for everybody reading this don't use the patch) and on top of that I bled really bad in my seventh week. I went to the emergency room and they were sure I would miscarry within 24 hours. I'm still pregnant and the baby's doing great. I think that your a very strong woman!!! Not every woman could be the mother of four. Especially at such a young age. I commend you fully! Well, if you ever want to chat just send me a message. And good luck!!![/qb]

I just wanted to say that Ive been using the patch since it first became available in AK over a year ago, and have NOT gotten preggo (yet). Ive always felt, that if Im doing the best that I can to prevent pregnancy, then if I DO end up getting pregnent, GOD is telling me that it's meant to be. So I guess God was trying to reach out to you? Smiler
 
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[qb] Well as you all know, I'm 20 yrs. old with 3 kids and 1 on the way! After my 9 mth. year old daughter Ahjil, I got my tubes tied. Well, a couple of weeks ago I noticed what felt like a baby kicking. I went to the doctor and they broke the news to me that I was pregnant, I'm that 2% chance that this is possible. Today I turned 18 weeks, and their afraid that the baby is stuck in between my tubes. Looks as if I'm in store for a 4th child, and another baby girl! [/qb]
Wow girl...im glad i read your story! im new to this site and im 21 with a 2 year old andd just found out i was 5 weeks pregnant. i've been hella stressin about how im gonna make it work, but after seeing that your 20 with your fourth child on the way makes me feel better....how do you do it? By the way i hope everything went ok with your pregnancy!
 
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Congrats on your miracle daughter. I hope that your family is happy for many years to come. 20 yrs with 3 kids and one on the way is extremely hard. If you don't mind me asking, how old were you when you had the others. I am sure they are all very beautiful and looking forward to their little sister.

Good luck to you and your family.
 
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