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"The Dark Knight"
Get a Life? This IS my Life!!!!
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Originally posted by Dawn Butterfly:
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Originally posted by Blindsky75:
I've met some men who ask me if their jeans make them look fat......


Maybe they're gay. LOL kidding Big Grin


That wasn't my comment, that was SKY's comment. I just quoted it. So how does Sky saying men talk about her jeans make me look gay because I would probably be one of the men she ask anyways (hmm, I probably wouldn't have the guts to test out that lie on her, I saw some of her posts when she was a little angry and even though getting beat up by a woman may be fun, I still be a little scared to do it)? Anyways, tere is nothing wrong with being gay, as I have friends that are gay. Just not something I believe in myself as I believe things from a scientific point of view and spiritual point of view in this subject. Everything was created a certain way for a reason, that reason needs to be well respected for God's sake and for the sake of science. Other people who do not share my opinion it is their right and I respect them, as it isn't a requirement to be a friend of mine. The requirement to be a friend of mine has more to do with personal values like honor, honesty, loyalty and respect. Gay or lesbian beliefs do not fall into they categories.

My friend who is gay is also a jokester like me, so when we see each other he attack me with the gay/straight jokes and I would come back at him with them. I think others would be offended by them if we directed them toward them but we ad an understanding and a mutual respect, plus we both knew we were jokesters and knew it was all about getting a good laugh.

Now going to his birthday parties was a little hard for most people as he had them at a gay and lesbian club. My friends who were straight like me were paranoid to go like they were infected with diseases or something. After time they got use to the idea that it was their own persona belief, not a disease. I just kept telling them if someone hit on you, just kindly tell them you weren't interested and they would move on which is what happened. Like all humans, you respect them, they respect you.

Maybe I am just very open minded and understand that people have opinions and personal beliefs, but I think humanity as a whole needs to stop judging other for their beliefs, gender or anything else that will come (new genetic research broke the human code, so genetic discrimination will be coming, mark my words because it is typical human behavior to act childish and put someone down that isn't like you, don't ask me why though as I think it is foolish and irresponsible as a race suppose to have superior intelligence on this planet).

It comes back to one simple work, respect. You don't have to agree with someone nor like their beliefs, but you do have to respect their right to have them. I have NO RIGHT to tell a woman that abortions are wrong and what to do with her body, no matter what. Yes, I don't believe in abortions but it isn't my right to tell a woman what to do.

This is again where society is telling people it is wrong to have ideas or beliefs. Maybe I should live like a hermit because my open mindedness on believing people have rights and people should be allowed to have opinions doesn't belong in todays world because todays world is not yet advanced enough to accept my ideas and my way of thinking. Science and Philosophy never really gone together right except inside my heart anyways, always contradicting each other and fighting. Maybe I am just a freak act of nature because it seems like no one is even remotely close to being like me in any way. Do I have fangs or claws?
 
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Originally posted by Glenn the Survivor:
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Originally posted by Dawn Butterfly:
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Originally posted by Blindsky75:
I've met some men who ask me if their jeans make them look fat......


Maybe they're gay. LOL kidding Big Grin


That wasn't my comment, that was SKY's comment. I just quoted it. So how does Sky saying men talk about her jeans make me look gay because I would probably be one of the men she ask anyways (hmm, I probably wouldn't have the guts to test out that lie on her, I saw some of her posts when she was a little angry and even though getting beat up by a woman may be fun, I still be a little scared to do it)? Anyways, tere is nothing wrong with being gay, as I have friends that are gay. Just not something I believe in myself as I believe things from a scientific point of view and spiritual point of view in this subject. Everything was created a certain way for a reason, that reason needs to be well respected for God's sake and for the sake of science. Other people who do not share my opinion it is their right and I respect them, as it isn't a requirement to be a friend of mine. The requirement to be a friend of mine has more to do with personal values like honor, honesty, loyalty and respect. Gay or lesbian beliefs do not fall into they categories.


I was not referring to you about the gay thing, Glenn. I was referring to men who ask if their jeans make them look fat. Because for me they are overly vain, and they are candidates for gay-hood if they are like that.

I'm sure you are not gay. No your not. LMAO. I'm really sure of that... just wanted to clarify. Wink

And also I never mentioned that there are something wrong with gay men. I just said that maybe the men who ask if jeans make them look fat may be gay. That's all that I said. Whatever is written here is all that is said, nothing else is implied. Smiler

And yeah, I know it was blinsky's comment, not yours... that's what I quoted there isnt it? Confused
 
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"nuninuninooo Roll Eyes
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Oh by the way, even if someone replies after your post, doesnt mean they are replying to your post... they are just following the thread. That's what quotes are for, as a reference to what post the person is replying. So even though I replied AFTER your post, I was not at all replying TO your post. Smiler

Anyways... just told ya that to clarify my post about gay men so there wont be any misunderstanding between us Wink
 
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LMAO

Glenn......you are one long winded SOB aren't ya? LMAO. You were in the mood to talk just like me yesterday. hehe

Dawn...I don't think he really took that you were being offensive or saying anything...I think he just took the topic and ran with it. I understand b/c I do the same thing. Its like my mind jumps to the topic that gets mentioned and I want to just ramble out everything on the topic. I try to hold back a bit because I realize that my inner dialogue isn't for most people and hard to follow.

Oh my oh my...from stretch marks to chocolate to gay men in tight pants....did I say tight? uh-oh.....hello chippendales.




"Hope" is the thing with feathers-
That perches in the soul-
And sings the tune without words-
and never stops-at all...
Emily Dickinson
 
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I saw some of her posts when she was a little angry and even though getting beat up by a woman may be fun, I still be a little scared to do it)?



So that makes me scary huh? Maybe that's my problem with men...I'm intimidating.




"Hope" is the thing with feathers-
That perches in the soul-
And sings the tune without words-
and never stops-at all...
Emily Dickinson
 
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Yeah I kinda thought Glenn just wanted to ramble up there, but I just had to clarify just to make sure. LOL. I dont want any misunderstandings on Christmas. There's already too much drama that happened during the holidays, I just wanted to make sure nothing else is added in here.
Love Balloons
 
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Glenn......you are one long winded SOB aren't ya? LMAO. You were in the mood to talk just like me yesterday. hehe



I kinda had a hunch he's looking for some gorgeous woman to help "shut him up" and make him smile.

Sounds like a torture tactic to get the hostage takers to give up.

kidding Glenn.... Wink Hug Me


Glenn..... I'm kidding... you really made some very good points which gave the OP a different perspective.


 
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Okay so this thread is too funny! lol I have major major stretch marks, but I don't really care. I've never been a bikini body type of gal and I'm not one for revealing clothing anyways, so even if I got the flat stomach I doubt I'd show it. But then again I've got stretch marks on my arms as well, but they don't bother me as much anymore. Hmm chocolate on my stretch marks, that's an idea. Wouldn't work too well during the summer monthes though. However I think the smell would make my clients hungry. lol Razzer


 
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"The Dark Knight"
Get a Life? This IS my Life!!!!
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I saw some of her posts when she was a little angry and even though getting beat up by a woman may be fun, I still be a little scared to do it)?



So that makes me scary huh? Maybe that's my problem with men...I'm intimidating.


Some men find that attractive, usually the ones who won't treat your like **** and try to run your life.

As for me though, I won't tell if that is attractive or not :-X That is my secret I will try and take to my grave!

If that intimidates men, that is their problem. Let the mommy's boys run home to mommy and hide behind mommy's skirt!
 
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"The Dark Knight"
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Yeah I kinda thought Glenn just wanted to ramble up there, but I just had to clarify just to make sure. LOL. I dont want any misunderstandings on Christmas. There's already too much drama that happened during the holidays, I just wanted to make sure nothing else is added in here.
Love Balloons


Everyone knows I am the SFV clown. If I don't make a joke, then I probably would be scaring someone!
 
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"The Dark Knight"
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Glenn......you are one long winded SOB aren't ya? LMAO. You were in the mood to talk just like me yesterday. hehe



I kinda had a hunch he's looking for some gorgeous woman to help "shut him up" and make him smile.

Sounds like a torture tactic to get the hostage takers to give up.

kidding Glenn.... Wink Hug Me


Glenn..... I'm kidding... you really made some very good points which gave the OP a different perspective.


If a woman is going to try and shut me up, I wish her all the luck in the world because this thing is solar powered, just a tad of light and it goes on and on. In the dark, the back up batteries keep it going for a month straight (I know, I like my house dark because it is more peaceful and relaxing!
 
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"The Dark Knight"
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At this point I think I may be causing a little too much trouble as now I have 4 women commenting on my comments and I know I am not fortunate enough to have all 4 thinking highly of me, so here is where I duck behind a brick wall hoping you run out of water balloons and everything else you might want to throw at me (rotten tomatoes comes to mind first actually since I have that knighthood mindset).
 
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LOL...but you're entertaining us!




"Hope" is the thing with feathers-
That perches in the soul-
And sings the tune without words-
and never stops-at all...
Emily Dickinson
 
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"The Dark Knight"
Get a Life? This IS my Life!!!!
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LOL...but you're entertaining us!


Well, if I am entertaining you then I must go on, don't want you mad or else I may have to run to avoid getting beat up!
 
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"The Dark Knight"
Get a Life? This IS my Life!!!!
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Originally posted by Dawn Butterfly:
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Originally posted by Glenn the Survivor:
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Originally posted by Dawn Butterfly:
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Originally posted by Blindsky75:
I've met some men who ask me if their jeans make them look fat......


Maybe they're gay. LOL kidding Big Grin


That wasn't my comment, that was SKY's comment. I just quoted it. So how does Sky saying men talk about her jeans make me look gay because I would probably be one of the men she ask anyways (hmm, I probably wouldn't have the guts to test out that lie on her, I saw some of her posts when she was a little angry and even though getting beat up by a woman may be fun, I still be a little scared to do it)? Anyways, tere is nothing wrong with being gay, as I have friends that are gay. Just not something I believe in myself as I believe things from a scientific point of view and spiritual point of view in this subject. Everything was created a certain way for a reason, that reason needs to be well respected for God's sake and for the sake of science. Other people who do not share my opinion it is their right and I respect them, as it isn't a requirement to be a friend of mine. The requirement to be a friend of mine has more to do with personal values like honor, honesty, loyalty and respect. Gay or lesbian beliefs do not fall into they categories.


I was not referring to you about the gay thing, Glenn. I was referring to men who ask if their jeans make them look fat. Because for me they are overly vain, and they are candidates for gay-hood if they are like that.

I'm sure you are not gay. No your not. LMAO. I'm really sure of that... just wanted to clarify. Wink

And also I never mentioned that there are something wrong with gay men. I just said that maybe the men who ask if jeans make them look fat may be gay. That's all that I said. Whatever is written here is all that is said, nothing else is implied. Smiler

And yeah, I know it was blinsky's comment, not yours... that's what I quoted there isnt it? Confused


I know you didn't, I just ramble alot, didn't you know that about me yet? I did think you meant me by that being the only guy here talking though, see what happens when you assume? I assumed and now since I had half the story I was half of assume!!! Now I put my head down in shame a walk toward a corner, sitting there until I can redeem myself again.
 
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