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Originally posted by Destinys mom:
[qb]Hey everyone, I have read all your stories rather them be the good ones, the sad ones or the juciy ones so I wanted to share mine. I am 23 and Destiny, my daughter is two (the 18th of this month) Her father and I met in October of 2000 and we (I) got pregnaunt in Febuary on 2000. Well the relationship really had started to go down hill before than but I was still in it. I found out I was pregnaunt and tried to stick with it (for the babys sake?) I worked my entire pregnancy and painted my house and cleanded it and everything while he did nothing but wine and complain. When I was in labor I was at home before I went back to the hospital, and I was trying to get sleep before I went back, and the contractions just got harder and harder, and I started to moan, and he told me to "SHUT UP AND BREATH YOU WILL BE OKAY" At the hospital when I was suppose to be getting rest before the pushing I was doing it all, the phone rang in the room and he would not get off his butt to get it, I could not I had a epirdurl ( thank goodness) Then when I had her he did nothing I was up three days stright because he would not get up and help, it took him three months before he changed a diper, and not once since she has been born has he ever gotton up for a midnight call, not even when she was colicie, when that was the case he got up and went and slept in the spare room so he could sleep!!! So I put up with that for way to long in Feburay of this year, I pulled the plug on him, I said I have enough and made him get out. He said that he loved his daughter and that he was not going to be like all the other dead beat dads and he was going to help, that lasted a hole two months then he relized that I was not going to take him back, well he raely ever sees his daughter and never pays support.
Well that him..
I have a new boyfriend that is awesome, I have known him for a long time we went to school together, then he went to the army. I was worried that maybe he might have been sent to Irag for the war so on a chance I stoped by his house to see if his parents knew anything and there was him, the man of my dreams, it was truly love at first sight for all three of us ( I had my daughter with me) now were are together working on a great realtionship and Destiny loves him to peices Yes love is real and it is great and there are MEN in the world keep your head up folks
Amanda[/qb]