So (I seem to always start these things out w/ so)

I had an epiphany today at work. I'm sitting here and thinking about how it felt to have my child go with her Dad for a couple of days when he (and Jennifer his wife) came out from FL to see her. The hard part about this is that he just met her for the first time last month... so the epiphany came when I realized that the whole time they were out, it was "all about my feelings" and at no point did I stop to think about how Jennifer feels...at no point did I stop to think about how it feels to have to live up to me and my standards of parenting. (I somehow made that abundantly clear to her) I see that she loves my daughter and that's truly what matters...

Had to add 1 more thing...Jennifer and I are trying our hardest to be friends. It's worth it to me to know the woman who is caring for my child when I'm not there....

Hey TM,
although admittedly I AM much LESS trusting than yourself....that absolutely is an awesome and selfless point of view.

You one heck of a lady.