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Lively & Zealous Parent |
Yeah it would be a real 'ballsy' move all right.
Ok - enough of that ! Do the day, and let the day do you. Wireman     |
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SFV JUNKIE!!! |
LMAO!!!!
  I'm a man of many mysteries and sides....SO many I'm practically round!! |
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"Submarine Board Parent (surfacing occasionally)" Forum Board? No- KeyBoard! |
Nope, no more for me. I don't have the hips for it.
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"SFV Hopeless Romantic..and I stress "HOPELESS"" Setting New Standards |
BIn, Paul, tripfour,..you guys are killing me here!!
http://myspace.com/sugarand3  Courage doesnt always roar, sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying "I will try again tomorrow." |
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" "Forum Board? No- KeyBoard! |
Wow....how the mighty have fallen.
lmao    "Hope" is the thing with feathers- That perches in the soul- And sings the tune without words- and never stops-at all... Emily Dickinson |
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"Doing what I can" SFV JUNKIE!!! |
ROFLMAO Oh, so many thoughts come to mind from that sentence. |
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SFV JUNKIE!!! |
A couple more "snips" and they WOULD HAVE!!!  I'm a man of many mysteries and sides....SO many I'm practically round!! |
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"Doing what I can" SFV JUNKIE!!! |
Every time I see the phrase "more children" it makes me sad cause I dont think I'll be able to have any more.
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Board Blazen Parent |
Tricky question...
Lots of stuff to wade through on this one. I am going to be 37 in August but that is still plenty young... but how long will it be before I meet that special someone... could be a couple years. That's 39. Pushing it a bit? I have posted bits and pieces of my story so far but in case you don't know... my daughter Sophie who will be turning 3 this June was not my choice. She was an attempt to keep me in an abusive relationship and to secure a paycheck for my ex. My learning of being an expectant father was one of horror and dispair. Nothing like I ever wanted it to be. I was almost physically sick. I wasn't there for the pregnancy nor did I want to be around the psycho really. I had been transfered to VA from MI so I was saving my days off for the birth and time with my daughter. Next... the birth was hidden from me so I couldn't be there to be a part of welcoming her into the world. I would like to experience that with a woman I love. I was then alienated from Sophie for the most part until I won sole custody. I never thought that would be how I would experience having a child. I don't want that to be my only experience of having a child. It would be nice to have some of the dreams of marriage and fatherhood I had once held dear actually come true. But the clock's o'tickin'... and I have some work to do on cleaning up my heart before I go messing around with another relationship. But right now... when I look at all I have with Sophie. All I hope to have as far as a loving and nurturing future family. I would say, "yes" no matter how many other children are coming into the equation. "Surely what a man does when he is taken off his guard is the best evidence for what sort of man he is..." - C.S. Lewis  |
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SFV JUNKIE!!! |
First...thanks for sharing that with us...I think some of us here on the forum need to know that side of the story sometimes. Second, If I had it to do all over again...No way...I wouldnt have gotten "snipped". I would love a chance to have kids with "the woman" I love...but the situation would have to be right...for the both of us. AND....the success rate of reversal is really really low. So..I wouldnt do it. You never know...at 40 you might meet someone 29, who wants to have your baby, because she loves you. JMHO. I'm a man of many mysteries and sides....SO many I'm practically round!! |
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"Doing what I can" SFV JUNKIE!!! |
Wow. Finally to hear someone say something that makes sense to me in this matter.
I want more children (and yes Becca I know) but I want to have children with a man that I love. I dont care if he already has kids or not but I want at least one more of my own. That's something I would like to share the experience with someone else. I went through my whole pregnancy alone, without a partner. It was tough and I will do it again if I have to in case I dont meet someone before I'm 30 . . . but I would prefer not to. |
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