What would you pick?

If your dream person could only give you one last token of their affection (until you meet again) how would you like him/her to say goodbye?



a nice warm, strong, heart-felt embrace that tells you without a doubt this person loves you.


or

Sweet nothings whispered in your ears sending tinglies down to your curling toes and tells without a doubt you know this person loves you.


I know I would like both (especially with his fingers running through my hair)
However, you can only have one. That's it. Just one last thing till you meet again.

What would it be?

(I have no idea how to turn on the poll so, if an incredible moderator wants to edit/adjust this post I would greatly appreciate it)

I'm a cuddler/hugger.....SO I would choose the embrace. Call me weird, but I would prefer a long hug , with the scent of her hair lingering in my nose for the next couple minutes, over a make out session....unless that session begins to brew some coffee....The scent of coffee always gets you ready for whatever is to come....

I would say embrace. You can whisper that stuff through a phone. lol I prefer physical contact and I pretty much agree with Joey's description . . . however I prefer men over women

I also choose embrace.
When you can't be with the person you love the thing you long for the most is to be held or hold that person.
And I'm speaking from experience!

Definitely the embrace!

The Embrace?

Easily..... The torturous moments of being apart always involve the "lack of touch, sensation of the other person "being there", their very presence in your same space". I believe (without getting too kooky) that there is definite energy of some type that is transmitted when we touch..... and for some, the idea that another person is "Electric" to them is such an UNDERSTATEMENT!!

Ok...yeah...so that's a long winded answer. but yeah...the embrace. I so miss holding my Lover girl.

For the record if I know that person is going to be gone a long time then I'm going to take one day to have as much "coffee" as possible until neither of us can walk. lol

I know that's not an option here but hey, that's what I would do.

I ....have no response to that.

The embrace.
As said already, whispering sweet nothings can be done via the phone.

I don't see a way to turn this into a poll at this point.

ok, it depends on where we are and how long til we meet again.

if we are at the mall and there are people all around and i am going to see him later that night, i'm going for the whispering and the chills and the anticipation of acting out what he whispered.

if we are in an airport because he is being deployed to the middle east and i wont see him again for months (if ever) then it is the embrace, the holding tight and dear to every breath and fiber of his being and letting it overtake me so that i never forget that exact feeling in that moment of time.

funny how your question made me sad, and there isn't even a guy...

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ok, it depends on where we are and how long til we meet again.

Darned good observation. Here I was thinking about it being a long time until seeing them again. Short term.......absolutely sweet nothings, er maybe even not so sweet

s i g h ..... I can't decide

I could use both right now.

My imagination will just have to suffice. Maybe a poor bored gentleman will let me win at online cards tonight and tell me how cleverly smart and wickedly beautiful I am.

Maybe I could play cell phone tag again.... with a midnight cerfew.

Wouldn't it be incredibly fun to meet a first date in a movie theater while seated giving him just clues to who I am? If he finds me... I guess he could warrent a peck on the cheek.

Eh, embraces are good no matter how long you wont see that person. Even if you are both off to work in the morning and will see each other at the end of the day.

I work in insurance defense and I see a lot of car accidents and since working in this field of law, I see so many accidents that just happen with no warning. I figure you have to tell and show people how much you love and care for them because you could get in your car one day and not get out alive. I know this sounds bad but its something to think about just the same. Our time on earth is short and we have to make sure that those that we love know that they are loved.

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Originally posted by smshybug:
....I see so many accidents that just happen with no warning. I figure you have to tell and show people how much you love and care for them because you could get in your car one day and not get out alive. ...its something to think about just the same. ... Our time on earth is short and we have to make sure that those that we love know that they are loved.

You are so right, Sarah....... I try really hard to live by those words....Not easy somedays.

I try hard to remember those words myself. I am working on remembering them more and trying to live by them more . . . its hard but I try. That's all I can do. I know that Kai knows that I love her, I know she loves me.