I am new to this site and just need to reach out for help. I am pregnant and alone. He said he wanted to be a father but could not see himself in this relationship. I am terribly sad, I am very confused and scared to death!! I do not have a support system and just need someone to talk to. I have many fears. I fear for my daughter who is watching this as it happens and for my son who will be born and raised without his father. I am also afraid for myself, my future. How in the world am I going to do this without him? He was an amazing person (or so I thought) until I got pregnant and now I swear he is the devil. I am in so much pain and trying so hard to hold it together for my ten year old daughter and for the sake of this unborn baby. I just need to reach out to someone who understands, someone who may be able to help.

Welcome to the forum purdue....You will find some wonderful people here to share with. If you want a little support, maybe even a few laughs to help get through a day these people will surely be there to help.

hey welcome to the forum...

i'm sorry your feeling badly right now...

it's hard to hear whwen someone says to you "it will get better" but it does... in time.

your story is not alien to any of us. like you I went through pregnancy alone... and in a society that has scorn for unwed mothers (I live in Asia). but everything seemed to turn out right even though at the beginning I was really scared. God takes care of His children. And as He took care of me, He'll also take care of you. Yep, it does get better. Just hang on in there, and keep on posting here. This forum has helped me survive my darkest days because it was here where I found the support I needed. So I hope you stick around.

Thank you all for responding. I will be returning often and look forward to your advice and support to help me get through these very dark days. I am afraid I may need all I can get from you all. THANK YOU ever so much!!