Is there any way to search on here for members that maybe have a same interest as me? I love talking to all of you but you know, maybe find a guy my age, etc. I'm a dork!

I wouldn't say you are a dork. just feeling out of sorts like the rest of us. I would like to find a nice lady my age and that didn't live far away. just may have to wait a bit. I am sure it will come to you

Hey bug don't feel like the lone ranger lol I think there is only a few women from Texas, I havent seen any men around lately. I have seen a couple come n go but not to stay. That is unless they r hiding.

Good Luck w/ur search and if you see any 36 to 40 something send 'em my way lol.

I'm so impatient. But I got an interesting phone call last night from an old friend.

Bug, do tell.

Well, hope you have time to read this, I met him 4 years ago, while I was dating someone else. We were friends except one night he tried to kiss me, so I stopped talking to him. Well, he found me online, however, I was under a different user name but I knew his. When I said hey Nick, he was like, what the?? So anyway, we've been talking about hanging out and maybe dating after a while. I'm so nervous.

Bug,

Glad to hear that this old friend is wanting to get to know you again. Hope things work out.

Ok and guys I know what it's like being a loner on this board...Like NOBODY I mean NOBODY seems to be from Vermont? I'm beginning to question whether there are any single parents except for me left in this state. Oh wait does VT even exist LOL That's ok cuz everyone here is great to be around anyways.

SPIRIT

I agree Spirit. Everyone here is great.

This friend however has a weak heart and he's only 27. I'm scared of being hurt, and I know I shouldn't focus on the negative, but this guy may not live to be 40. It's something I have to think about cause I'm dating for myself but also for someone that will be a father figure for Kai. What if he has a heart attack or heart failure during. . . well we'll not go there, but you know what I mean? It's weighing heavily on my mind.

Spirit, SFV ain't heavy on Iowans either dear.

What's SFV??

i am with you there, i feel all alone in pennsylvania, too. maybe, we should all move to one area and be free to have some fun with each other... i guess i have been alone tooo long and could use some companionship... where are all the single good looking men, who like to cuddle and love a woman? how far away do you have to go to find one, because it is getting pretty lonely here....

I am feeling that today jjawsy. I miss having someone to cuddle with. I would love to come home and have the thought that my guy is going to walk through the door and he is with me because i am who i am. I am feeling a bit sappy today I guess.

maybe we should make up a sappy club... we could all feel sappy together.... i want a guy to walk through my door, too... is it such a bad thing to want. are there not enought men to go around or what? i just don't get it... i guess right now i want it so bad that i am miserable knowing that there is no one to snuggle with or keep me warm at night. sometimes i feel like i am being punished for doing something wrong... how long does a person have to wait for love....

I'm still angry that I wasted 2 1/2 years with this guy and he was so excited when I got pregnant, then he up and decides he doesn't want to be a dad. He tried so hard for me to give Kai up for adoption. F******! That's my word for him.

I have some offers from some guys, but you know what, i'm so scared out of my mind, that I dont know what to do.

i was stupid in the passed too... love is definitely blind, but we did get the best part of the man when we got our kids... if we would not have been that stupid then we would not have the kids we love so much... so i guess we just have to get over what happenned in the past and learn from it. we need to find more sensitive and caring guys and make them fall madly in love with us.... any idea on how to find them because i am getting impatient.... i know they say when you least expect it that love will come along...but how long can that be,,, i don't want to be 80 before i have that experience again...