I think I read to much but I'am losing hope for ever finding something that just hits me hard that I'am flying like I'am falling. Is there such a feeling out there? That every time you kissed your heart would flutter, and you would get weak in the legs. I just feel like giving up should I?

I know you are probably looking for a womans perspective on this but I can tell you that I have had that feeling a few times in my life. And even though those relationships didn't work out I wouldn't have missed them for anything.

Hi kitycat and welcome.
You know what don't give up. I was married for 17 years and although it was not perfect I loved him so. There were moments I could have shot him but there were moments that noone else in the world could have moved me like him. Just be careful that you don't expect it to be perfect all the time because it won't be. Working through the difficult times will make the relationship stronger in the long run, if you don't give up on it. My husband and I went through He.. and back together and I know there were times when he could have shot me too.lol
Point is we worked through it. Half the fun of a good arguement is making up and remembering you love them.
God bless.

Kittycat00,

There is love like that out there!! I know b/c I've felt it!!

I would say that I can be at times in love w/love!?. My heart fultters everytime they kissed me. Or if they called my heart would skip a beat. A goofy smile plays on your face when they look at you. You know that does eventually go away but what replaces it is just as wonderful. Knowing when you look at the person you love and yeah the smile is not so goofy anymore but a smile does appear.

SIGH*** I do miss that. I hope to feel it again. I've been there twice. The relationsips never worked out but it was awesome while it lasted. Now I just have to meet mr. right to have a realtionship that will last LOL

Keep your chin up there is love out there like that and you will find it. I know I will find it again just have to give it time.

GOOD LUCK

SPIRIT

they are right, there is love like that and I mean truely like that. the trouble is, its usually just one person that will do that to you. If you have had it once, don't try to make all the other compete with that, cause they will never measure up, and they won't last. in short, yes you can fall in love more that once in your life. that "Heaven on Earth" one, may only happen once.

Hello kitycat ~ and welcome to SFV.

If you don't believe - it won't happen. I say, never give up. I also believe, you can't go looking for it with any sense of desperation, or it will evade you for sure.

Focus on yourself and what's important to you - and leave the rest up to God's will. It's not within your control.

Hello kitycat,

I know exactly what you mean by that kind of love! I too felt it twice but it did not work out either time. On a positive note, it did teach me a lot about myself and what I am looking for in a long term healthy relationship. Hang in there! Sometimes our time frame and fate are a little off. It will happen when it is meant to. :hugme:

Kitykat, I know that feeling very well, but I have to say I don't like when I get that way because I feel like it interferes with my life too much. I have so many trust issues and other problems to deal with, that having that feeling makes me feel powerless and I spend too much time thinking of that person...I really think I am better off dating guys that I have lukewarm feelings for so I don't fall in love, that may sound somehwat hard or cynical but I've been through so many relationships that I am just tired of trying.The last relationship I had (and am still dealing with) is very passionate and intense, and we are both Scorpios with similar personalities, but it is o trying at times I sometimes wish we had never met