Ok, guys:

I'm asking this because I am very insecure about my weight.

What are your thoughts on looks as far as a woman's figure are concerned? Television and magazines and whatnot portray all of these idiot stick figures with no souls that the rest of us are supposed to live up to, but most of us who have had kids and live in the real world DON'T look like that! We've born children, we have hips, we eat carbs, and try as we may, some of us can't get the baby weight off, even when our youngest is in school already!

Does weight matter THAT much, if the girl is otherwise a non-mutant with a decent personality and half a brain?

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lol this should be interesting. I at least know Paul appreciates a curvy woman.

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Originally posted by momof2okc:
If the girl is otherwise a non-mutant with a decent personality and half a brain?

- Love that sentence. And yeah, I know Forum teachers, it's not a complete sentence.

Me personally I say no, doesn't matter. My Girlfriend is not average in the weight department, but I don't care. It's what's upstairs that counts. And frankly, I'm in Pauls camp here, I like the curviosity.

Uhhhmmm I'm not going to add to this but I will say I have had two kids and I stayed in pretty good shape

its mind over matter

I'm sure you will find a suitable guy that will enjoy your figure

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Originally posted by Bishop:
Uhhhmmm I'm not going to add to this but I will say I have had two kids and I stayed in pretty good shape

Bishop, I think her point was that she actually HAD the children herself. Your hips don't widen when your kids were born

Yeah, I'm sure it didn't hurt him a bit and he was right back in his old pants in 10 minutes.

no but my forehead did

lol you might of had two kids, but you didn't "have" two kids.

haha okay so I'm not the only one that had to add that.

Ya know, I wouldn't feel so insecure about my weight, but a male friend of mine POINTED IT OUT to me about 2 years ago.

Although why I listened to his opinion I do NOT know. He's a photographer and his last 68709 gf's have been the idiot stick figure models he shoots. Like he knows what REAL women are.

Just because there body is different from yours doesn't make them bad people....

they have feelings too.....


I'm an in shape person who tries to look good I don't think that makes me less intelligent or less of a real person
Most of mygirlfriends have been inshape as well

as long as your caring and kind you will find someone that is attracted to the real you.You shouldn't put people down becuase of they way they are shaped they are just skinny not evil ....

I'm being specific about these girls, lol. They were. They used him because he was a photographer and they wanted portfolio shots and he ended up quite damaged because of it. I know not all skinny people are evil, I'm just trying to make a point.

WOW!! what a question?

Not sure If I wanna get in the middle of this one....most women just cant understand the way men are wired...cause it's NOT the same as women.

I may a lot of things...but stoopid is not one of them.

...Mostly.

We all have physical flaws of one find of another the important thing is to find someone who doesn't see them as flaws but as part of who you are and how you got to where you are in life. If you've gained weight b/c of your kids I say you've earned it. Maybe you are more concerned with whats happening in their lives then spending every day after work at the gym to please some man you don't know yet. Be confident in you and you'll find the right MAN won't care.

One day men will get over women being a stepford wive, I have, I am skinny for a man, she is not, and it matters not at all.
this is me, I am slimer actually..

she would kill me if I posted her pic, so I won't.