I am convinced that regardless of my experiences i just absolutly do not have the answer the to this question can someone plese enlighten me...

hmmmmm I have been wondering the same myself....maybe the guys can help with that one.....

wut a cutie!

Thanks neak....I googled what men really want just to see what I would get and this is it....

Men want a woman who is honest, who he can trust completely, who is not likely to sneak around and sleep around with other guys.

Someone with similar interests so they have something in common.

A woman who will make an effort to please him.

A woman who makes an effort to look her best.

An appreciation of the man's job.

Passion

A woman whose ego isn't bigger than her hairstyle.

A partner for his life.

A partner for his soul.

Someone who is caring. All men want to be looked after.

Someone who has faith in him.

A woman who is strong yet sometimes submissive.

A woman who is strong but does not have an attitude.

Someone who is not too loud.

Someone who won't nag him beyond reason.

A woman who challenges him and is full of the unexpected.

An interesting woman.

An intelligent woman.

A woman who is not dumb (mediocre intelligence is fine).

A woman who is smart enough to grasp new concepts.

Someone artistic or creative.

A woman can take care of herself without feeling that she has to compromise herself in a relationship.

Someone who suits their individual personality.

Some guys like an aggressive woman.

Some guys like silent and reserved type.

Someone in-shape/athletic.

Interdependence, so that you trust and need each other.

A sense of humor.

A woman with a nice laugh.

A positive personality.

Men want a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality.

Someone up for action, or willing to get a litte kinky in the bedroom.

A positive personality

A talent and passion in something worthwhile.

Men respect and want a woman who knows her own mind; women who are true to themselves.

Someone relaxed and confident.

A woman with a good soul.

OK OK OK....I am alot of the things mentioned above with my ex.....what the heck happened??? I am still alot of these things to new men I meet....so I say what the heck?? I thot I knew what a man wanted, but am totally clueless.

So Dali, Don, Orion, paulj, Reno Paul, JD and u other dads......WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT???

Thought that when reading it myself...so what is missing from the list guys? What do you guys REALLY want?

never.....you really summed it up that sounds more like what i am looking for in a man...LOL

LOL....I could add to that list if we are talking men....I talked to Santa about it....so we will see what is under my tree. He better have a return policy.

LOL.....that is hiliariuos ,,my co workers are looking at me like im crazy b.cuz im laughing so loud...

That list is interesting.

I thought it was a much simpler list.
steak
beer
power tools
and the remote control

LOL how true Harmony!!

I don't know about the rest of the guys here but I like that list, I think if had a woman that hit most of the things on that list I would fight like the devil to keep her. And let her know every day how much I love, appreciate, and cherish her.
But that is just me, and we all know Dali is a bit off.

if that is off....I am looking for off....you have a way with words. Got a little puddin on your face though....LOL

All of the men I have dated have just wanted ***. Now look at me. I don't think they're all that bad, I just have to raise my standards. Right now I'm just not dating period. The right one will come along eventually. Just be patient. Guys don't read this part: a B.O.B. is a beautiful thing.

Wow, very nice list. That pretty well says it already.
For me it would be someone somewhere inbetween agressive and silent/reserved.
Someone that takes life in stride, that doesn't make mountains out of molehills a.k.a. no drama queens. Life is hard enough as is usually without having to blow the little stuff out of proportion.
Someone that can allow me a certain amount of space now and then to do "my thing" same as I have always allowed them space to do "their thing" That sort of falls into the trust category as well. If their thing is a night out with the girls, behave accordingly and bring it back home to me. Infidelity is a definite deal breaker. My thing is more like a day out playing in the dirt.