I've been seeing a man for nearly 4 months. He has now met my 2 children and I have met his daughter. I thought once this happened it would be easier to see each other. He has his daughter with him 50% of the time. When she is with him he only calls me once she is in bed for the night. She gets upset with him if he calls when she is around. She once told him to get off the phone as his "15 minutes were up and he promised that's how long he'd be." He obliged her. I work shift work so our time together is limited. He's never yet invited me over when his daughter has been with him. I don't really know how to deal with this and what steps to take. He is my first love interest in the 6 years I've been separated.

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This sounds familiar. If he has his daughter half the time, try to find out what caused his break up. It is quite possible that there may have been another woman in the picture. And kids pick up on that sort of thing. It could be possible that she resents you because she feels he is replaacing her mother. I have had sort of the same problem myself with my two. They dont or didnt want me to get close to another woman. Anyway be patient and see what really comes of it, but don't force him to make a choice. Good luck, and God Bless