a nice guy. I want to go on a date. No expectations. Just a date.

Smshy... don't they have some meetup.com stuff going on up there? Why don't you try a couple of groups if so? Good way to get out and meet new people that have common interests.

Just a thought. You could aways start one too if there are none ya know.

I think I just need to fina an older man who wants to hang out with me, have coffee and maybe, possibly some "coffee," who may or may not have the possibility of having a relationship with.

Knight . . . I have some ideas of some people that I know that I would date but my insecurities hold me back from asking.

Just show up where these guys hang out, smshy, and look cute. Smile. Say hi. Maybe even crack a joke. Someone will ask you out.

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Originally posted by smshybug:
a nice guy. I want to go on a date. No expectations. Just a date.

that's the best way to do it

next time dude asks you out on a date, don't analalolize "is he bf mat'l?" yada yada yada

just think, here's a chance to meet someone new

and then report back here stat!

I agree, no analyzing, just a date.

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Originally posted by smshybug:
a nice guy. I want to go on a date. No expectations. Just a date.

my only advice there is be careful what you wish for...
summer 06 i just wanted "a summer fling"
ex husband moved out may 05
match and other online personals brought little success
july 4th party 2 men hit on me - hard - tom and jerry - no lie, even at a party my life is cartoonish!
both called.
jerry was the perfect mate type
tom a playboy.
i only wanted a summer fling
i chose tom
i enjoyed my fling for the most part. he was habitually late and bothered me in other ways, but no biggie, he was just a fling.
3 months later he broke up with me - saying he wants to get married and have babies and i dont seem headed that way - well, he's half right - lol
i cried for 6 months.
i miss him still.
i went in with absolutely no expectations and while i wasn't paying attention, i somehow fell in love with the man.
argh.
be careful what you wish for bug, i wanted a summer fling and that is exactly what i got.

summer lovin, had me a blast...
summer lovin, ended so fast...
sniff, sniff.... wonder what he's doing now???

My sister and I were at a store last night and laughing up a storm about various things. The cashier kept watching us. My sister noticed and started making fun of me. She said there was no way he could watch her because of the huge rock on her finger. So anyway . . . we get up to the checkout, my sister picks the one with this guy, and he was flirting . . . with me! All I could do was giggle and smile. I talked to him but only to say we were just innocent girls having fun. He said "yeah right" and winked. LMAO We just left and when I looked back before going out the door, he was watching and he smiled. I smiled back and left.

***Yes Mark I know that I was suppose to get his number****

Sarah can ihave a banana too
lovve HANNAH

I would send Hannah all the bananas she wants. We always have bananas at my house. Why dont you FedEx Hannah up here and she can come have banana sundaes with us

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Originally posted by smshybug:
I would send Hannah all the bananas she wants. We always have bananas at my house. Why dont you FedEx Hannah up here and she can come have banana sundaes with us

After yesterday.....her flight arrives at 10....
She actually typed that for you and I'll never hear the end to running out of bananas....
We always have them too but guess what my sweet daughter...YOU ATE THEM ALL...
Fruit man comes today...we'll be back in bananas....
The pic is driving her crazy though.....thanks..

so you need to start calling her hannah banana then!

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Originally posted by LaurieDorey:
so you need to start calling her hannah banana then!

HA...I started calling her that before she was born....
Actually I love brusied brown bananas...so it's Hannah my sweet brown banana.....

I've had a Hannah working for mr for 4 years now. It has evolved from Hannah to Hannah Banana to just Banana and sometimes Banana-face. In e-mail it is often HB!!!!!! lol

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In e-mail it is often HB!!!!!! lol

Well just be careful that you don't slip up and say the things to her that you say to me in emails...oolala...

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Originally posted by HannahsBoy:

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In e-mail it is often HB!!!!!! lol

Well just be careful that you don't slip up and say the things to her that you say to me in emails...oolala...

she's been working for me since she was 14, so i'll never call her a red hot hunka hunka hunka burnin love... i'm safe!