When and where are there any good men around? Why is it that I feel so alone without any girlfriends to lean on about this subject? Someone help me before I go crazy, What makes it worse thought is that I live in NY .

I felt the same way. The best thing to do is to keep busy. I started going to church, enrolled in school. Between those, I have my son in soccer, and his own church groups. Not only am I getting out and increasing my chances in meeting someone, (maybe), I'm making good friends with some of the other parents.