hom do you get over the hurt? i did all i could and he ran from me i understand he is 23 and scared but why run like this from me?

Burn all his stuff
Lol

Ok..I know it's hard but you do need to find a way to cope and get on with life for yourself and your baby.

Hang in there

Same thing happened to me. The worst part was she was shave-your-dog's-butt-ugly and had six kids.. She was nasty, and his first girlfriend after me.

I put venison in his couch, then rubbed fiberglass insulation on the crotches of all his underwear.

LMAO.
I wish I had thought of that.

I feel kinda bad about it now..

gnee- He may come crawling back sometime in the future, keep that in mind.

Same thing happened to me, except I was 11 weeks pg and although she wasn't *technically* a stripper she certainly was a ho. I eventually DID get over it. Yes, it hurts, but you have to realize you're the better person here and a REAL man wouldn't have put that kind of stress on someone who is carrying his child. My son is 6 months old now, and his father is a distant memory. I rarely think of him and when I do it's to wonder how I could have been that stupid to date him for 3 years.....

I met this drop dead gorgeous guy in college. He was a senior and me a freshman. All star soccar player and devoted catholic....well we broke things off, then had a little too much fun a few times around the holidays...well then came a positive pregnancy test. He split like the wind to another state for a while, then married a rich girl who lived in a local town. I got revenge by giving birth to a beautiful little girl who is all mine. I don't have to share her with anyone. My mother was the best support that I could've ever asked for. My daughter is 2 now, I met someone when she was a few months old. He is all she knows as far as daddy goes. Someday I will have to tell her the truth, but for now she is happy and so am I. So the saying that there is more fish in the sea is true. It may seem to take forever, but everyone's time comes. At least you won't have to be hurt repeatadly by him running around. Remember anyone can plant a seed, but it takes someone to water and take care of it too grow. And that special someone is you. Hang in there. I feel your pain.

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Originally posted by gnee2985:
[qb] hom do you get over the hurt? i did all i could and he ran from me i understand he is 23 and scared but why run like this from me? [/qb]

I know jow you feel although I haven't been left yet my boyfriend loves the strip club he claims he goes because his friends work their but he can always see them outside of work. the father of my first child cheated with his ex and got her pregnant. but you know what when I thought about there is no reason to get upset it seems there is always someone out there that will treat you better it just takes time and if you find him and he has a brother send me a message!!!