Hi all,
I wanted to warn everyone to take your time and listen to that inner voice. I started to date a man that became worped and twisted. He led me to beieve that he was one that listened and cared about my well being and health. I stared to have the red flags go up after he met my daughter. Then he started this acting very strangly...I call it the happly ever after syendrom.
This is when a person liked to play the perfict family thing .....cook brackfast in the morning for the kids.....Says tey are so impressed with how you have brought up your childerian then underminds and starts to quetion you parenting style and tels you that you are not correct or are to harsh .....but gives everything the childeran and so on....
Then starts to correcting you infrount of your child. And says that they did not heed you befor te relationship began and dont need you now.......
Be awair of these men that want to get into relationships out of lonelyness or desperiation. These men will try to change you into what they want even if it means mentaly abusing you to change or phisicaly abusing you. Please be careful. They will even go to the exstent of trying to trap you throw pregnicy. Becarful take the time to get to know them and if you feel there might be something wrong try to talk to them and if they blow up of become affensive.........get out keep yourself safe for your childerian sake...... remimber abuse taked 4 generations to be over come by healthy lives and live styles.

for the most part this is true cept its not just men who do this. women do it too. thank god i cought it early cause i might have fell for it but instead yea bye bye she was out the window