Okay it finally has happened I have met another human being of the opposite *** who is over the age of 18 and actually kinda maybe sorta likes me.It is rather cool. Funny enough now my ex wants totally me for himself now that I have met someone, pulled his usual crapola on me but I am not doing it. Just wanted to share some sort of good news.

Good for you Dreamer. Have fun and run with it.

Yeah Dreamer! Have fun and keep us posted. I hope all goes well with you.

Nice to hear so good news.

Good to hear Dreamer. Good luck with it, and keep us posted.

Just curious Dreamer, where did you meet, in what place ? (maybe that's where I should go )

LOL Dew, funny enough it happened at a bar. What happened a creepy friend of his was hitting on me and usually I have me evil dog face on so know one comes near me. Anyways he started talking to me and saved me from the creepiness. LOL. We then went for coffee for like 8 hours the next night and then the day after that, and then the day after that. It was so nice to be out with someone who isn't all depressing. Anyways the ex is freaking out, he attempted to commit suicide because of this or actually made the whole show of it. Got him some help. He was like why won't you take me back now, ummmm I wonder. Oddly enough he is living with his girlfriend and he asks me this. Her and I though sat around looking for him and making phone calls when this was going on and have discovered that hey we sorta get along, just not with him around. And more good news, got the phone call I wanted about the job I wanted, and then assisted housing called me also yesterday and I got in and the boys and I move into out new place tomorrow. I don't know what is going on but I am scared to stop and think because it might stop. Anyways there is my sharing for the day. It is freaking awesome to be on top of the world.

It is so good to hear this news .I am happy and thrilled for you.Enjoy

It was freakin' awesome trying to decipher what exactly you were saying.

I think you're saying that you a have found a love interest, a new job, and a new place to live and you are very happy. And I'm sitting here chuckling cuz all I could picture was your fingers moving at lightning speed over your keyboard.

"Boy is she happy or what?"

Thanks for sharing your smiles and happiness. Have to agree with learningalways, enjoy!

wonderful!!! i'm happy for you to have so many good things happening

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Originally posted by jaydsdad:
[qb] And I'm sitting here chuckling cuz all I could picture was your fingers moving at lightning speed over your keyboard.

"Boy is she happy or what?"[/qb]

LOL I was just thinking the same thing! Congrats Dreamer. I'm glad things are starting to fall into place for you.

Well things are still going. Funny enough it doesn't matter what crap the ex pulls right now it doesn't seem to bother me. Okay the new job fell threw but that's alright because the boys and I have finally got into low income housing which is one big stress relief. They are happy and loving that mom is actually getting some joy in her life other than them. They are looking forward to when he comes back into town from work so that way they can have a sleep over somewhere and mom will actually leave the house other than for milk. I don't know he is just awesome to talk to even if nothing comes of this it is nice to know that there are people out there who think I still have it. LOL. Are my fingers flying across the keyboard yes they are I could go on and on about everything that has happened recently to me and it makes no sence nothing like this ever happens to me. I am the bearer of bad will most times and the black cloud flew above my head for years. Thank god for chinooks in Alberta. So yeah life is good, looking for a job that makes me happy and not going to settle with some dead end crap, and thinking of returning to school.

Keep kicking Dreamer....soon life will drop to it's knees for you.

Okay as for the title of this post there is always the bad, my ex is now throwing stuff at me that he should have said years ago and it is killing me inside. I went to therapy because of this crap and now I feel like I am starting all over again. I am staying as distant as I can but this shouldn't be happening. He has his life and his things why can he not let me have mine. I have worked hard to get here. This just freaking hurts now more so than ever. I know he will never change it is just so freaking hard some days.,

Dreamer
I say - do not let him rain on your parade.

Hang up the phone when he starts in on this stuff.
Speaking to you in such a negative way is not acceptable.

If it is not a real issue about your kids then don't listen to it.