I have just been in contact with my daughter's new case worker at BC Children's Aid. She has informed me that although they received the order which states that I have custody of Drew as of the 19th, they are not prepared to release her to me on that date. They have informed me that they must institute an investigation into a) whether the Ontario order has jurisiction over their office in BC, and b) pending a suitable answer on matter A, whether I am suitable to be Drews caregiver.

So I will most likely not have my daughter back in time for Christmas as I announced earlier.

She also informed me that they have determined that her mother is not yet ready to have my daughter returned to her, and that they are pursuing and most likely will get an order for three further months of Foster Care for her. So at least I am not worried that her mother will take off with my kid again anytime soon.

I spoke with this woman at length, and told her that I had already purchased the tickets and that I was assured the order I received would be adhered to, but she stated that her office was constrained from doing anything other than the aformentioned course of action.

I have been in contact with my lawyer's office, and I should be hearing from him soon. I dont suppose there is any way he can expidite the matter, but I feel sure he will make the attempt. Most likely, he will have to adjourn the previously scheduled hearing from the 23rd to some date in the future.

I was not given a suitable estimation of the time it would take for CAS BC to investigate, but It seems likely that it will take at least a month. I was not informed by either my lawyer or the judge who signed the order, that such a circumstance would take place. In fact my lawyer was so sure, that he gave me the go-ahead to buy the plane tickets. However, I am not giving up hope. I am planning to make a few calls to some hopefully influential people who might be able to help me.

As for my flights, which are already paid for and booked; While I am told that I cannot get a refund on the tickets, I can reschedule them for a fee right up until the day of intended departure.

So basically to sum it up, I am very disappointed. I could use some kind words right now.

Do not give up hope.

It is Christmas and your little one deserves to spend it with family.
Your lawyer was so sure for a reason.

I would ask the lawyer if you need to have an independent come in and do an evaluation of you and your home to present. Showing you are a prepared parent.

I will be praying that this is only a minor glitch and it will be smoothed out for you.

Sorry for the set back keep holding on It hopefully wont be long now.Hugs and prayers for both of you.

Well that really (insert stars here)! This is the part I'm interested in. Please keep us up to date about how inter-provincial family law works.

You're down but your not out. The rewards are worth the struggle. Never forget that.

No happy dance for this thread.

Hey machine, things will eventually come around. I know it seems crappy, but in a twisted sort of way they are looking out for your daughter. I can see there point but I can also see yours. Being someone who has been in the system when I was younger they want what is best for her, even though they go threw all this ****. Keep on them. Seriously, and you know what contact the area MLA or something, I am a strong believer in if you want something done go higher up. Be proud of what you have done so far, and keep going. Whenever you need to vent drop on in, heaven knows I do it all the time.

Hey Machine,
No, you can not borrow a cup of hope, but I would be happy to give you one or two. I know how difficult the system can be, I am a foster parent. You will get there and get your little girl back. Keep on truckin and keep listening to them. They should tell you all the things that need to be done. I know it seems like they run you through hoops of fire, like it was said it will be so worth it when you do get her.
Lots of prayers and hope for you and your family.
God bless.