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SFV JUNKIE!!!
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Ok,
Been meaning to start this thread for a while now....so it's interesting that I finally do it on Valentine's Day. Smiler Especially since, for most of us, the opposite sex is on our minds quite a bit today.

So, with that in mind, What is it that the opposite sex wears that you find Unbelievable Attractive?

For example with me, it's the following:

Long hair, worn up.
Spaghetti strap tops...ones like they wore in the 70's.
Yoga pants..mmm hmmm.
Gold sandals...I have no idea why...just do

Big Hoop Earrings..OMG! they are a definite Shwwiinggg! for me...cant figure that one out. Confused LOL

OK...My sister said: (she's 29 and single)
A fit man in jeans..and nothing else..barefoot even....my oldest daughter agrees. (she's nodding yes).

Next? Confused



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My favorite thing for a woman to wear is sweats and a ball cap, minimal makeup. If a woman can pull off that look, it is just amazing. Not every woman can do it, but those that can, OMG...

Big hoops are an OMG for me too.

Shoes...well, they should be tennis shoes, preferably white, AND CLEAN....I hate people with dirty shoes...Also, I have a foot thing, and I like their feet to be size 6.5 or smaller. Dunno why but uhhhh yeah




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OMG it's been sooooo long since I've even THOUGHT about what I USED to like in guys. My days were filled with housework, work work, school, doctors appointments, groceries, court, police, fighting, I don't know life before being a mother and a victim of domestic violence. What would I like in a guy? It's changed so much now. Here goes. Quick mind, definately someone in sinc with small inuendos that go over so many peoples heads. I like that quality. Definately someone with a brain, and a skill but they don't have to be a rocket scientist. Someone who likes to work hard. No laziness. Someone who is clean, but can get out of the shower, run his hand through his hair (if he has any), throw a pair of jeans on and doesn't have to look in the mirror before going out. Someone tough, rough even, but soft spoken, with a gentle side and a sense of humor. And last but not least, someone who's not jealous. I used to be flattered when a boyfriend would get jealous, but now I see it as a sign of insecurity. I need to have someone who's secure with themselves and not feel threatened with the people I interact with in my life. I think if someone like that fell in love with me, I would be a puddle at their feet.





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LOL... I thought this tread was about clothing, what's hot and what's not...

Anyways for me, it's the ballcap/jeans combo. Shoes should be hiking boots. I'm all over the map on hair, I love long & short, but something simple.

I guess even if it isn't low maintenance, I love a woman that looks like she could climb out of the tent in the morning and look just as she did the night before, or close to it anyways.

Along these same lines, I find a womans eyes to be the single most physical feature that can get my attention. Always has been always will be.


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SFV JUNKIE!!!
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Along these same lines, I find a womans eyes to be the single most physical feature that can get my attention. Always has been always will be.


I'd have to agree with you on that one. Smiler



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For me:
I love the way men smell. Whether it's a manly cologne before a night out, or the smell of a hard day's work. mmmmmm. Delightful.

I also have a thing for accents..not Pakistani Elvis.

And who doesn't love a man in uniform? Soldier, cop, fireman, hard hat and work boots, etc...

Hair that's short but slightly disheveled and a little grey on the sides. Or totally bald.

As far as clothes, it's a fine line. Well dressed but not too polished. Style with a little rough around the edges.

And I dont care for men who wax their eyebrows or get manicures. A mans hands should be rough and a little dirty.

Am I offering too much information here?






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I'm all about a man in blue jeans, t-shirt, and work boots

uniforms usually make me gaga, especially military

hair needs to be clean cut, not necessarily short but well taken care of

and he shouldn't smell of girly products! can't get over these guys who use more bath and body works stuff than I do. Smiler

I have to agree with the guys though, it's the eyes that do me in, not so much what they wear to accent them. I can get lost in a guy's eyes for days.




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Ok...I'm with Pj's sister and daughter on this one....just jeans...barefoot...barechested but I also have to add to that...not really really skinny either. I like a man with mean on his bones....


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tight is in, tight jenes and short sleave top, and I have allways loved long hair true red or black black are extremly sexy. Not sure about shoes, I never seem to get around to looking at them. Razzer




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I have allways loved long hair true red or black black are extremly sexy. Razzer


I AM with you there, MO! Redhead...the fiery-er the better. LOL Big Grin

How's the old saying go?
"A Woman with spark in the day...will surely light up your night!" LOL Big Grin



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Note to self: pick up some hoop earrings, sweats and ball cap, and some red hair dye.






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SFV JUNKIE!!!
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Now, you're talkin sistah!Smiler

Where's Minnesota again? Confused



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Start heading north east, when you find towns barried in snow and ice you have arrived, now get your shovel and dig. Big Grin




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Ya, It's the house with the igloo in the front yard.






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LOL...OK.

Today I've to put my shorts on...dang..gonna be 83 and bright & shiny. Smiler



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Just rub it in why dontcha!






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heh heh heh... Razzer



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LOL...OK.

Today I've to put my shorts on...dang..gonna be 83 and bright & shiny. Smiler


ice palace here brrrrrrrr
83????


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It's a bone chilling in the teens, windy day here. Have to hurry to my car or I may freeze up on the way. Ok, just watched two movies in the last week. First one was One Fine Day, with Michelle Pfeifer and George Clooney. The second was The Lake House, with Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock. There's two movies that make you want to be in love with someone.





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Ooh, another thing that flips my cookie? A man who can operate a snow blower. I mean that literally.






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Operate a snowblower? I admire men who seem to be able to operate or fix anything mechanical. Doesn't have to be anything specific though.





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