hi their everyone. i am new to this and well i am looking for anyone to talk to at this point. my story is this sorry it might be long. me and my ex have been together for two years now. we are both 18 but she is still in school. we found out she was pregnant in july and i went into debt to get us a apartment. i took care of her all the way through her pregnancy and worked two to four jobs at once to make ends meet. her parents tho got involved and we broke up. she is already dating the guy i thought she was cheating on m with. and now she is filling everything in court for restraining orders against me so i cant see our son. he is a month old and ihave only seen him two weeks. she is now tring to state he might not even be mine. please someone help.

Welcome to the forum.
Sorry to hear what's going on, I know it's frustrating for you. You are going to need to gather up some patience to deal with this, but it will get worked out one way or the other.
As for the restraining order, I don't know why she's doing that. Normally it's because someone is afraid of someone else, however she could also make things up and at least get a temp restraining order. Then a court date will be set to determine if there are any real grounds for making it a permanent restraining order. If she does get the temp order all you can do is abide by it and have your say at the hearing with the judge.
As for paternity, since you weren't married there's also not much you can do right now about visitation until paternity is established. You can file for visitation if you want and during that process you can/will need to prove paternity with a DNA test. As long as the baby is really yours you will then have rights to visitation whether she likes it or not.....and as long as there is nothing legitimate about the restraining order and it doesn't become permanent. Plus of course you will be paying child support as well.
As I said, it sounds like you will be getting frustrated while this is working itself out, feel free to hang out here and keep posting/venting the frustration and in due time it will get worked out.