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Ugh, i'm so frustrated, this guy never wanted this baby, he broke up with me 2 wks before i found out i was pregnant to pursue a 17 year old when he was 25-they are still together over a year because hes a two face mofo. he's lied and cheated to me with minors up to his age over 10x's...whats worse is he works for a middle school and he's so sneaky i can't prove hes a pedophile, he always looks for teens online hes not a hardcore pedophile but hes like a guy whos single looking to hook up for girls level where its low profile. i asked his g/f if she knew he was a pedophile and she said yes! omg. its so disgusting!!!
he makes the visitation seem inconvenient to him b/c he has his social life and g/f to attend to. everytime i come pick up my son, hes already out there waiting ready to give him back. he told me he was going to pick my son up half hour later so i said i'll push the pick up time half hour back, he threw a fit cause he couldn't spend that much time with him. my son was crying & wouldnt drink formula when he was with him so i made it for him & he tried to help me and ask how much do i put in and i was thinking, do you never take care of your son that you dont even know how much to put in there?! (he has supervised visits with his mom so i think she takes care of him) i highly doubt hes changed a diaper either. hes clueless and i think she does everything for him. he wanted me to have an abortion and ignored me for 6 mos of my pregnancy till i send him an ultrasound to give him a reality check, he came to all my drs visits then but he never went to one baby dr visit which doesnt make sense. he's the type that will do what he thinks he should be expected to do but not what he should do. if he had a choice he wouldn't visit the baby but what does he tell me and the judge? that he wants to see his son and if i take the child away he will track him down which i highly doubt. i f'n hate the fact he cares and wants to spend time with him but he doesnt. he didn't even ask about how his 1st halloween went or what he dressed up as...don't parents want to know and be there for their kids first holidays? ugh, why does the judge give him vistitation to a man who rather be with his g/f and friends than his own firstborn!!! all he does when hes with his dad is cry unconsobly because he probably feels that negative energy of not being wanted or he hates him too...but for hours nonstop he'll cry but the judge doesn't care apparently,ugh whats the worst part is that 1.5 years later, i still miss him & wish he was here with me sometimes...this guy is so evil with how he can draw you in & he knows he has the power to get any girl he wants (he only got rejected once back in high school when the girl knew that the g/f dumped him thats it!) hes a heartbreaker and hes a jerk because hes got this fake self confidence but he knows how to woo a girl, come on, a 17 year old girl? it disgusts me and i dont know why i still have thoughts,miss him and still wish he was with me...sigh |
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have you tried to see if he would give up his parental rights?
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Why do judges let dads visit when they dont care?!?!?

