I am new to this. Still in the process of the divorce issues. My husband has been gone 2 months now said he needed some time to work on things. But wanted to do counceling and figure out things. Well come to find out he has not he has been having a big party for himself. Bad talking his wife and telling every one we are getting divorced while telling me different. We have kids together. But he quit calling his kids. I will be filing for divorce I don't kow exactaly how to do all this i have been with him for 7 years the lonlyness sucks. And the pain of losing some one you spent so much of your life with that turns on you is worse. But i will be strong again. Help me to grow.

Hi breese, and welcome to the forum. You have already started to grow, you found this place and reached out. Congrats. Take it a day at a time, and keep coming back here. You can vent, ask advice, give advice, join in on some laughs and find a lot of people that will understand what you're dealing with.
See you around.