I am new to this site so I am not sure what to write but I am going to try to write here what is bothering me. First of all my little girls dad he is something else he only gives me 100.00 for my daughter knowing that he should give me more money next thing I know he tells me he will take away our little girl from me. He has not told his family the truth why her last name is not the same as his and now he told me that they are asking questions on how we met. I am worried now because I do not have job and I am afraid he will take full custody of her and if he does that to me it will break my heart because he did not want her at first and now he is going to do that to me sorry if this message does not make sense but I am trying and it is 100.00 amonth

Joann honey welcome and God bless, first question is that 100.00 a week or a month?? Because if it is a week that is pretty good depending on what he makes, second a lot of folks say they are going to do something and never do it. It is really hard to take a child from a mother even harder when the child is a girl and even harder when you are in Texas. I in from Texas and my dad did not get me when they when to court but he had to pay child support, so look into it and talk to a laywer okay, I will be thinking about you God bless Amanda

What questions are they asking ,what is the deal with the last name if you don't mind me asking. Guys always say they will take the child because they know that will hurt you. As long as you are a good mother the courts will not take you baby from you. Mothers have a special bond with the baby before the guy even sees the baby. I am in Texas too I live in Houston. I have not talked to someone in Texas since I have been on this site. Good luck I am pretty sure nothing is going to happen he is just talking.

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Originally posted by johnnie:
[qb]What questions are they asking ,what is the deal with the last name if you don't mind me asking. Guys always say they will take the child because they know that will hurt you. As long as you are a good mother the courts will not take you baby from you. Mothers have a special bond with the baby before the guy even sees the baby. I am in Texas too I live in Houston. I have not talked to someone in Texas since I have been on this site. Good luck I am pretty sure nothing is going to happen he is just talking.[/qb]

I guess his family is wondering how we met. I told my family how we met because i thought they should know and i was not ashamed of what I did but I guess his family must think highly of him but who knows. But he thinks that since he was not at the hospital when I was giving birth that our child would go with him right away and if she does not do that he yells at me and tells me it is my fault that she does not want to go to him he only comes to see her when he can or when he wants to