Well, I thought I would say hi to everyone and I hope you are doing well. But I have some bad news . . . my heart is broken. Over my absence from this site it would seem that some friends and other people are not getting along so well. The last time I was here, everyone seemed to be getting along great and now it seems that certain things have transpired, which I do not know the details of but I have been told that certain individuals are saying things about me that are untrue. Individuals that do not know me and who are just spreading things for their own manipulative purposes. This saddens me as I have never done anything to anyone on this site that is in any way negative. I liked everyone here and now I am not sure who my friends are and who are not. If I have been misinformed, I need to know but it saddens me still that I would be involved in something that is negative on this site.

This has caused my decision to permanently leave this site if something isn't done about certain people who seem to be immature, manipulative and just down right mean. I came to this site looking for advice and inspiration as a single parent. I have talked with a number of individuals who are wonderful people and I hold nothing against them. But when I got to a site that is suppose to be for single parent communication, I assume it will be positive and informative. I like this site and would hate to leave, but I can not be involved in something that supports negativety and bickering. I just can't do it. I have learned a great deal of positive information from people on here and I would love to continue to share information and stories. However, I feel this may not be possible.

Thank you all for your advice and caring words. I will really miss this site if it comes to that.

Sarah

Smushy! Hi! I sure wish you were here with more happiness! I haven't a clue exactly what you are talking about and I'm thankful and the only thing I know is I've missed seeing your sunshiney face around here!

Hey bug. I missed you and have been thinking about you. I am sad to read your post and find that there is negativity going on and that your name is in it. You haven't even been around for a while. Of course I am oblivious as to what you are referring to, but I too hope it gets straightened out.

So how are you doing? What have you been doing? How's the little one? Catch us up and don't be such a stranger, OK?

BUG, hey long time no see, sorry to hear something else is going on here. Don't let it run ya out. I swear, sometimes this place has more intrigue then a spy novel. Good to see ya back though.

OK, I dont want to ruffle feathers with this post but some things just upset me is all. i missed you guys too.

Kai is growing like a weed. Started running and loves it, although most of the time she falls on her face. She talks alot and is still very lovable. has 16 teeth!

Work is good. Got a job paying $13.00 per hour and working 9-5 monday through friday. It's with an attorney that is in sole practice. I like it a lot. Have had to put my boss in his place a few times but other than that, things are going well. Fixed my car, got ner tired, bough some new clothes and found Kai a new daycare. things are good.

My dad all of a sudden had a twisted colon and had to have a foot of his intestines taken out but he's doing good now. Getting better every day.

I hope you have a good pair of running shoes to keep up with Kai! That's great about the job and really any boss you CAN put into his place is ok in the end!

Yikes, your poor dad. That must have been scary!

Its weird cause that kind of thing only happens in really old people. My dad is one of the healthiest people I know and then something like that happens. I feel bad for him. He's going to be OK though. It makes me happy to talk to you guys again. i missed you all a lot

great, sounds like things are working well for you. I love kids at that age, "The age of wonder", so fun to be around and talk to, mine where. Corse we had to child proof the house with my eldest, she was very tactile, had to touch everything she could get her hands on.

Hope your dad continues to get well, best wishes on that.

Well I gotta go for the day but I'll try to check this thread later in the week. Thanks for all your warm thoughts. See you all soon.

Hey Bug!!!!

Great to see you! Sounds like you have your hands full with Kai right now. I absolutely loved that age with Evie.
Sorry to hear about your dad but, I am happy to know he is ok now.

As for the "junk" you keep hearing: I am oblivious (as usual). Who every started and is perpetuating the gossip column, needs to stop. I am assuming since so many of us are unaware, this is taking place via PM or e-mail. It needs to stop. Robin started this site and we all came here to be a part of a community of single parents. We all were looking to receive and give advice, to have fun with others just like us and feel a sense of belonging we often don't feel on the outside. Those that are spreading the gossip need to leave. Those of us that want to continue on with what Robin set forth need to stay.... Bug you are one that needs to stay.

I havent a clue whats going on either, corse I been a bit busy to post latly. I wish it would stop. LOL, actually I don't want to know whats going on, I have enough things to think on.

Hey Bug, nice to hear from you again! Glad things are working out for you at home, and with your job. This can be one of the most fun, and or the most trying time with kids. They are cute when they are running around, but got to have roller skates to keep up with them.

I too, like the majority, have no clue as to any gossip. I try to keep myself like a mushroom when it comes to that sort of stuff. In the dark. I certainly am up for a good debate here and there, if I feel strongly about something. But, petty gossip, bickering, and mud-slinging, well, that's what I originally came on here to get AWAY from. So, hope you decide to dismiss the members who are the culprits, as there are so many more of us who are here for one common goal. Support. Understanding, compassion, venting, and some laughter. Keep that in mind.

Well bug it seems the majority have the same goals...so let's make it happen. Welcome back bug!

Thanks for the big welcome back. It is greatly appreciated.

As for the "gossip", I have separated myself from those who are with that situation. And for those of you who might take this the wrong way, this has nothing to do with Dali or any of that situation. Dali is a great guy, no matter what anyone else thinks. I just didn't want anyone to think I was upset or mad at him with anything that I had said in previously stated in past threads. That is all "water under the bridge" and things are fine with that situation. From what I am told, he's happy with his new relationship and I wish him the best. Sounds like the girl he's dating now is a wonderful person.

Anyway, it's nice to see people welcoming me back. I feel all warm and fuzzy now. I hope you all are really doing quite well.

Welcome back smshybug,

I've been mia for a bit - busy with life. Good luck with everything. Life is always a challenge.

JD .. your icon is too cute - makes ya look like you need a nap!!

Pooker, gotta say - just love those pet pics! Especially the doggie one - he/she is beautiful!!