Well although I don't agree with Mikes recent abruptions, I also sense he's been through a lot himself. Obviously his anger was misplaced here and I'd hope he understands that regardless of what transpired, we're here to offer him some support. Afterall, he's come here for a specific reason. There's no point in feeding more feul to the fire. Not everyone has the skill to overcome the hurt with fairness and self-control. Some people still believe that revenge is the bandaide that heals all wounds. Some people still need to learn their lessons..

You're right Jes, a comment I could have held back. "Sorry, Mike."

See? That's why we need editing? Sometimes we just need someone to curb some of the trash we feel like spewing out.

Perhaps I should have closed this sooner.
I really didn't want to see personal jabs being taken at this member, it was the positive support for the policies and all members, as well as the various pleas to participate in a different manner that had me keep it open.
I'd just as soon see the animosities just die down from here.

JerseyMike,

I wanted to let you know personally, that this site is not a business, you have -more or less- entered my home. My door is -virtually open- here but I started the site and it has grown for my needs, and as I am not so special as to being the only one to have these needs - the site has grown.

Yes, I do have everyone able to read the forum, but if you want to be a part of this, you are asked to sign a legal agreement and yes it has , and will stand up in court.

When I had to make a choice to divore, I went to confession and I was told by the father - who knew both my ex and I- "Robin, there is a difference between being humble and being a door mat, - he continued- "when are you going to stop being a door mat! At that moment I realised that if I let people go about not respecting me it is because I do not respect my self.
With that I gave my ex an a choice.

We start back to the begining - where we start dating living apart and going to marrage councleing or divorce! He ask if I wanted a divorce I stated - I don't care.

I really did not and have not looked back. He offered nothing in return to what he was given.

So, I demand respect, not only for me, this board, but for every member and surfer that comes this way.

If you have nothing positive to offer... well...

You have a choice.

I have stated here, a reply to your other post...
http://singleparentsnetwork.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?/topic/5/1261.html#000000
where I stand.

Please, Don't blame any moderator for enforcing the rule that YOU have agreed to.


Please play nice, and so will I.
I take the security, and wellbeing of parents and children seriously.

Peace
Robin