Hi
I got a lot of good opinions from my other question so this is also popping up. I wanted to get some opinions before I seek legal advice.

I have also written about my x under stepparent in open discussion. I will probably be seeking legal advice soon regading the stepparent issue.

I want to see what is thought about bringing this up as well.

About a year ago my x introduced his girlfriend to our child. They went away for the weekend. My x slept in the same bed as his girlfriend.

The girlfriend, as it turns out, was pregnant. She had some bleeding. They went to the emergency room. My x told our child the girlfriend was pregnant.

Since they got married I never made an issue about sleeping in the same bed. Seemed like the damage was already done and I just discussed it with the child.

Anyhow it is now seeming my x has terrible judgement over all. I am wondering if it is worth bringing this up now as well

Thank you


Additionally the x is doing everything possible to make him look like a stellar person to other people. It is really something. I am concerned about where he is heading with this.

I'm confused...what is his current lack of judgement?

I guess his lack of judgement was taking a child to a hotel room with a women the child just met that weekend. Then getting into bed wtih the woman. The child was in the same room. This was followed by telling the child this woman was pregnant.

While this shows poor judgment it will probably not be seen as anything to bring up in court or custody study. Sorry but lack of good morals is accepted as OK in the system. Wish it was different. You can and should bring it up if you are having a parenting plan study done or are in mediation.

Hope this helps.

With it being in a hotel room, there's not much a judge is going to say. The only judgement call he needed to make was whether or not it was a good idea to introduce them at the time.

It's understandable you're hurt, your ex has moved on and gotten married and is having a child with someone else, mine did it too. Problem is, if they're already married now, there's nothing the judge is going to do about the sleeping arrangements, and would more than likely roll their eyes at you for bringing it up. It's a moot point once they took their vows.