ok i posted daddy who is not a daddy so you already know some of the history well friday night i went over to my son's grandoarents house because they were taking us out to eat. My son's father was there (Todd) we still have not had our talk about our son but i am still very much attracted to him. Is that wrong? I cared for him when we were together but we were not inlove or anything. I found myself wishing that we were together again and settleing down to make a real family. I need advice He was joking around with me and even gave me a hug but I dont want to put to much in to anything can something please help me? By the way he was not abusive or mean to me I think alot of our seperation was listening to too many people run their mouths when i was pregnant. My hormones were out of control and he was been a typical a** hole

Ok sweetie.....I know where you are coming from. My baby isn't here yet (any day now though)and my ex and I are still friends. We disagree on many things of course, but we have managed to make it work as friends. Our reason for splitting was due to the fact that neither one of us was ready for a serious relationship at the time and it was pretty much a mutual thing. We, like you and your ex did not love one another. I love him as a friend but not in that way.

Anyway...I am still attracted to my ex as well. Part of it I chalk up to the fact that we share something extremely sacred and special, and that is our child and the other is still the same attraction I had for him when we were dating. He still comes over to my apt. and spends the night with me....In the same bed!!! Nothing happens but it is still really nice. I know that he doesn't want to date me again....I pretty much asked, and besides we would most definitely fight about the same stuff we fought about when we were together.....and we get along so much better now.

It is not a bad thing to still be attracted to your ex so don't worry. But I would be careful about misconstrueing a situation such as a friendly hug. It could be more, but I would not read into something like a hug if I were you. Now if he goes and gives you this world altering kiss....and not like you would kiss your dad or mom kind of kiss......then you can assume that he might feel as you do.

If you just can't wait to see what happens next then ask him when you have that convo with him about your son. I still am waiting to hear how that goes by the way! Let me know how things work out!!!