Ok. here i go again it has been since august since we split up and he is now remarried, but here is the kicker every 6/8 mos he always tries to butter me up no matter who he he is with we hav ea 2 yr old daughter toghter and there is a no contact order on hm because of all the abuse and threats he's made to me.I try to be fair but now once again this time every year he starts his bull this past weekend he had our daughter for visitation and he imed me while i was on here asking me if i missed him and etc. I told him No this time. because i like waking up with peace in the house now. But a part of me wonders y it is every time around this time of year he does this too me. and then he uses our daughter by saying we should be friends and not fight . well it is him tht fights because tries to be so controlling over my life he doesnt want me but im not supposed to be with anyone else either. now how is tht. please anyone if you know please help..... I hate this.